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162 replies

MumNWLondon · 15/08/2010 09:23

I was reading the times yesterday (annoying can't post link because now have to pay for their website) was article about women having her first baby at 30 and how all her friends were still waiting. Midwife said all first time mums generally under 20 or over 34 unless it was unplanned.

So - who here is on their first pregnancy, how old are you (and if you don't mind saying was it planned?) if its your second pregnant how old were you first time?

Just nosey really couldn't really believe that 30 was young for a first pregnancy...

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Purplefan · 15/08/2010 14:14

Hi,
With 1st pregnancy I was 32. This current pregnancy I am 36, but will turn 37 before the birth. Both planned, although this 2nd one has taken a long time, hence the gap. Smile

nymphadora · 15/08/2010 14:17

1st-21
2nd-22
3rd-will be 31

daisystone · 15/08/2010 14:18

This is my first baby.

Became pregnant at 34. Will be giving birth at 35. It's planned.

yama · 15/08/2010 14:19

First: 29 - unplanned

Second: will be 34 - planned

I guess I fit the model.

BigAngryRedThing · 15/08/2010 14:22

21 for first, 24 for second. Neither planned.

undercovamutha · 15/08/2010 14:25

First: 30 (although had m/c aged 29)
Second: 32

All planned.

Was 2nd of close friends to have kids, and out of antenatal class/school mums was either younger or the same age than most IYSWIM (out of say 15 mums).

BeetleBaby · 15/08/2010 14:38

I'm 24 and 7 weeks pregnant with my first. It was planned, though we didn't think anything would happen so quickly!

Compared with most of my friends from school I'm one of the last to start having children, however amongst my university and now work friends I'm one of the first.

SanctiMoanyArse · 15/08/2010 14:40

Not pg now but first at 26, second 27, third 30 and 4th 34

All planned

websticks · 15/08/2010 14:44

First at 21 unplanned and now 22 weeks with second planned and i am 33

Honeybee79 · 15/08/2010 14:49

Got pregnant with first when I was 30. Planned. Had been thinking about it for a few years as thought we would struggle to conceive.

CocoPopsAddict · 15/08/2010 15:25

24, expecting first, will be 25 when he/she is born.

Unplanned, but very much wanted now!

Fleecy · 15/08/2010 15:31

29 and 30 - both planned. Was the first of my friends to have children.

LovelyKatie · 15/08/2010 15:33

Pregnant now with my first at 20.

unplanned but I couldnt be happier!

MumNWLondon · 15/08/2010 15:34

Thanks for satisfying my curiosity although interesitng for us all.

So this board is representative of what article was saying, more women in 30s having first babies than 20s. Many (but not all) of the younger mums babies unplanned.

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sam26oscar · 15/08/2010 16:36

Ds1 planned at 34, Lo2 due march unplanned 40

Raahh · 15/08/2010 16:58

First , DS, (unplanned) born day before my 31st birthday
DD1-planned, I was 34
DD2-planned(ish)- due in 7 weeks, i will be 38.

I was one of the last of my university friends to have children./get married. Most have children in secondary school already!

mamasunshine · 15/08/2010 18:03

1st - 24 (planned)
2nd - 25 (planned)
3rd - 27 (unplanned)

First of friends to have a baby!

missmoopy · 15/08/2010 18:18

I was 30 (31 a month after her birth) and she was very much planned.

ooosabeauta · 15/08/2010 18:19

1st - 27
2nd - 29

First of my school and university friends to have a baby, but was told I shouldn't leave it late to avoid problems.

gomummy · 15/08/2010 18:23

DS (planned) at 28, but we were TTC for a couple of years before that.

manicmamma · 15/08/2010 18:26

1st planned at 35
2nd planned at 39...wish i could squeeze in another....but 43 no so its a no no more...

crumblequeen · 15/08/2010 18:28

First at 26, pregnant with second at 29, both planned

ProfessorLaytonIsMyLoveSlave · 15/08/2010 18:29

First at 32, second at 35, third (if all goes well) will be at 38. All planned (well, this one planned-ish).

Most women I met in antenatal groups and meet now through the DCs were about the same age.

ItWasADarkAndStormyNight · 15/08/2010 18:31

22, was on the pill 'shocked but very happy!' as the midwife put it :)

MadAboutQuavers · 15/08/2010 18:32

This is my 1st pregnancy at 40, planned.

Will be 41 by the time DS arrives if all goes well