Loopy - so sorry to read your news I do think it's important to acknowledge the 6th member of your family and I hope it helps all of you. My dad ( vicar) did a number of ceremonies like this when he worked in a parish even though it's not the norm, he always felt it helped the families in some small way.
I have been inspired by the success of RG, febes and Loopy with the potty training, so William and I went out potty shopping last week. he chose a tombliboos potty, a Thomas step stool for the bathroom and spiderman pants. So we get home and I say 'Do you want to try your potty William?' 'Yes mummy!!!' very excited, pulls down his trousers, rips off his nappy and then he sits on it, bit nothing fits in, if you know what I mean I just couldn't angle his willy to go into the potty, so I'm going to have to research how to potty train boys! He has also now totally lost interest in the potty and so we're going to put it off for another few weeks.
we still don't have a holiday sorted, I want to book a cottage in Devon, so we can spend some time with my brother and generally get out and about, but the inlaws want to do centreparcs again. We liked it, but I'm not sure I want to go on holiday with the inlaws again, and I see my brother so rarely, we see the inlaws about once a month, that I would really like the kids to get to know their uncle a bit better. I foresee a storm brewing on the horizon here... Where in west Wales are your folks, Loopy? I went to uni in Lampeter and have fond memories of trips Aberaeron and Newquay.
My sister has come back from Australia for a few months. We didn't tell my mum she was coming back, and I surprised her with special guest at her birthday lunch - it was brilliant.
I'll try not to leave it so long next time - my Media studies class have their final exam next week, so the stress will be off after then!