LOL at 'benign neglect.' That is so me, though I like to call it 'off-the-leash parenting'. I was kind of forced into it with DS1 because he really needed to explore a venue fully before he would behave nicely, and spent so much time strapped in when there wasn't time for that I had to plan it into my day when out. Plus at toddler groups etc he was always so busy playing by himself I have become quite spoilt in my expectation to spend the whole time chatting to the mums!
Kurt is so chilled and sensible it just seems natural to let him pootle anywhere, even on hands and knees in the playground! I only bought him shoes because it's starting to be a bet wetter out lately and I can't be bothered to carry spare socks.
VG Head injuries are so par for the course though aren't they? You can't really prevent them, the kids learn from them and they have a magical tendency to come in 3s anyway.
Steaky Ikea is a great place for lunch with babies, I bumped into our NCT breastfeeding social group there today. I just dump Kurt in the little bandstand-play area thing and sit where I can see him come out to drink my coffee. Plus, I might be in Sidmouth for a few days at half term (w/c 26th) - wanna meet up? Some playzone somewhere would be best I think, pref one with decent coffee?
TS 8.10am start? Well done you!