help help ladies, give me some sense of perspective, i've got myself in a tizz, i'm all confused and I don't know what to think any more.
so as I told you, ds has lost weight this month. He's also had green stinky watery nappies for the last week. He's also not feeding very well, just nibbling, not really sucking, fussing alot or falling asleep within minutes. So I'm really worried about it now, feel like he isn't getting enough milk. Maybe my milk supply has decreased?
I've taken him to the doctors and they've taken a sample to see if he has a tummy bug. I'll find out next thursday.
I phoned up the LLL today for advice, and the lady on the phone asked about how often he fed. When I told her that he was fed only once over night she said I should be feeding him atleast every three hours if not more, and ideally sleep with him. I cold cry after spending the last three weeks trying to stop him feeding all night! all that crying (him and me) in vain! feel like i've made him ill be being selfish and needing to sleep
I've also gone back to work and she took a dim view on that too, saying that would also decrease my supply. Then she asked if he used a pacifier, and when I told her that he'd recently enthusiastically discovered his thumb she said that if he was thumbsucking it was a sign he needed to nurse more, and that when i saw him thumbsucking I should feed him
I feel terrible now for enjoying getting a bit more sleep and going back to work. I was even excited that he'd found his thumb, and he's been crying less. But I feel like a bad mother now, because he's losing weight and having these nasty green nappies. He's so pale and skinny
I've spent the day in bed with him feeding him every hour. He seemed a bit happier when he went to bed. What do I do now? Cancel work and start feeding him through the night again? cabin fever beckons..... :-(