jammy, as long as you weren't combing your hair over the counter full of food, and it was your food I can't see her problem; and as you had just come out of the pool it would be clean hair anyway
I feel a bit like that Norty; that it was only my mum holding us all together. We stayed at my big big sis's last time, but she got rid of her spare bed so not an option anymore (and she has been ill recently as well). I asked my next oldest sis if we could have a wee tea party for DS1s birthday at her house and she said no because she didn't want to have to clear up two weeks in a row as she had had a party last weekend for her own DS. It would only be us and my oldest sis and my brother and his DD. Not exactly a massive event that needed full scale catering, and difficult for us to have everyone over in a bloody caravan. she was also cagey about a time to fit us in as there is a pre- opening friends and family event at her DH's work (new B&Q warehouse) on Saturday and it's on from 10-4. Surely she isn't going to be there all day? and are we not friends and family? when I mentioned that to her she said grudgingly "I suppose you could come along". This is the sis who never even sent a card when Fin was born and the kids never got a Christmas present from her either. and more than a little bit and wondering why I'm bothering making the effort, but me being me, don't want to say anything about being disappointed incase I piss her off. I phone her every couple of weeks and it usually takes me leaving four messages before she bothers phoning back as well and then a typical convo goes along the lines of me asking how she is, her telling me and then me asking about the kids and her DH and she NEVER once asks how WE are doing.
Why am I doing this again? At considerable expense that we can ill afford?
see.....that's what happens when I get started.
off to cook tea and stop DD from trying to set the house on fire; she had turned the hob on earlier.....under a carton of apple juice It was just starting to smoulder when I got to it and I suppose the consolation was that it was full so would have been self extinguishing