AIBU - in not wanting to buy dh birthday present because he's been acting like a tosser the past few days
I know I am really Just need to vent.
Earlier in the week, he worked late. Came home, and (silly me) offered to make him pasta with bacon and mushroom cheese sauce. He went upstairs to cuddle the boys, and was still up there an hour later even though I had woken him a few times. meal did not get eaten.
When the carpet got taken up in the dining room, some gripper had been left by the patio doors - have asked dh to remove it (I've tried, and can't) W stood on it today and more
he doesn't ring tto say what time he'll be home, yet is disheartened when he walks through the door and can see nothings ready.
Today was the last straw. I had a rubbish nights sleep, so wasn't in a great mood to start with. The woman who's training me in my new dept is a patronising bag. (I am now a cost engineer and have to read technical drawings) I don't have a techincal background, but I can pick things up pretty quickly. But because I couldn't grasp a particular aspect, she was all like, well I don't know what else I can say, you've haven't got the experience etc, etc. Grrr
Anyway...rang dh on way home and asked him if he could come straight home at the end of the day, mine's been crap, need support etc. Yep, fine was the reply.
He got in at 8pm.
After I done boys tea, played with them cleaned up W face, after he had an argument with the patio (patio won) Put them to bed etc..
I can't speak to him, I don't even want to be in the same room as him
Can't even blame pmt for this either.