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Feb 07. It's February. Our babies are 1!!!!!!!!

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peachygirl · 02/02/2008 19:36

It had to be done ladies. A new thread for birthday babies!!

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marmitemad · 12/02/2008 18:58

I've scared you all off now, haven't I? or you're all too busy planning/recovering from birthday parties

peachygirl · 12/02/2008 20:46

I'm around!! I will get round to organising another meet up.
How about between the 4th April and the 18th April (these are my easter hols)giving us plenty of time to organise things and a good choice of dates. All in London / SE welcome. Current bun are you in this area or am I just imagining it??

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DontCallMeYummy · 12/02/2008 22:02

In a rare early-to-bed-with-no-tears move, Don't Call My Mummy Yummy is happily snoring away and my house is silent but for the ticking of a clock. Oh, and the munching of my housemate's prawn crackers which I'm trying my best to ignore. CRUNCHCRUNCHCRUNCH. Really, at least with a DP you can hit them round the head with a 'That's Not My Chainsaw' touchy-feely book.

Anyway, this post is really to offer support to Daizydoo - cos DCMMY also spits out the majority of the food stuffs I offer him (though is only too happy to wolf down books, magazines, carpet fluff...) He refuses 'meals' and so his diet (other than the above miscellaneous) consists of toast, apples, bananas, then not bananas, then bananas only if they've been mashed to a pulp, those ella's organic pouches, gherkins, rice cakes, raisins, baby porridge, and of course that good old staple to wash the carpet fluff down with - Mummy Milk. It's hard sometimes when friends tell how every day their baby eats steamed this, mashed that and what-have-you pie. DCMMY turns his nose up at my homemade bubble and squeak and dribbles my lovingly prepared soups all down his front in protest. The other day a friend gave me some generic spaghetti hoops in tomato sauce and once I'd confidently stated he'd never eat it - he wolfed down the lot. As I had been indoctrinated by my not-at-all-D-ex-P that Organic = Good, All-the-stuff-you-were-brought-up-eating = Child Abuse I had to stop myself from counting the E numbers on the label. Later I prepared DCMMY an organic veggie feast for dinner - and mopped it all up off the floor half an hour later as he munched happily on a toast crust and babbled away to Igglepiggle on the telly. Eeeeesh. I'm fed up of tying myself to the oven to no avail, so from now on I'm going to stop jumping through hoops - I'll heat them up and serve them with toast instead.

marmitemad · 13/02/2008 09:22

I can easily make Thurs 10th, Fri 11th or Fri 18th for a meet up. Could do other days over the Easter break but would need to book time off work.

DCMY - your posts always make me laugh so much, did you think of writing a book?

suzi2 · 13/02/2008 15:21

DCMY, we had an unusally quiet night too! DD was only up once... just knew something was up and today she has a stinking cold so I guess that was why. Still, it was nice to have some proper rest. Best night since she was born I think

With regard to food... DS was/is a fussy eater. He never eats a variety. he eats loads of one thing for weeks, then switches to another. And I think over about 3 or 4 months it all balances out. He eats far too many fish fingers though. I would prefer he ate all homemade and healthy etc but when it comes down to it I'm just happy to see him eating something. So if it's bird's eye or mcdonalds then so be it. I often wondered if it was something I had done wrong. But DD has had the same approach and the same things offered but will have a shot at anything. DS has never even tasted a new food unless you put some on his lips and he's forced to try it!

DontCallMeYummy · 14/02/2008 00:09

Oh Marmitemad you flatter me, I've gone and got a Ready Brek glow all around me now... If it weren't for the fact that I have met you in real life, I would seriously suspect 'Marmitemad' was my mum.

How are all the 1st birthday parties going? As a mum on a spaghetti hoops budget I have decided to covertly stage DCMMY's party during our local yoga centre's soft play session, for £2 a child (plus a few quid for teas in the cafe afterwards and homemade buns) I reckon that's a pretty shrewd move.

andyrobo237 · 14/02/2008 20:44

Just a quick dash in to say that DS is ONE today!!!! He has had a fab day - both mum & Dad off but Big Sis at school. Had a small family party - 6 adults and two kiddies (plus T) and he ate very little. he is going though that phase of refusing everything I offer except yoghurts. Spoke to HV today and she said to not give him yogs as he has cottoned on to the fact that he will get it even if he refuses food! So tough tactics from tomorrow!!! He will eat for his Childminder though!

He has taken his first steps so will be getting shoes at the weekend - we will be going for Clarks Doodles as they are soft shoes which are ideal for walking and also cheaper than the usual Clarks stuff - assuming his feet are big enough! Got him weighed today - 20lbs and 8 oz - spot on his line that he has been following!

Hope all are well!!

SmudgeMum · 14/02/2008 20:49

Happy Birthday T. Hope everyone has been spoilt today. We swapped gifts at about 7.30 this am before DH went out for an early meeting. We just had a nice meal at home though and reminisced(sp?) about this time last year and whether we made it through a meal with both of us sitting down.
Glad you had a better night Suzi2. Hope you've turned a corner. I second the idea of a writing career DCMY - was just reading your post out to DH!!
Food and eating is such a 'thing'. DS will mostly give anything a go, apart from when there is someone that I kind of want to show him off to and then he'll throw it all on the floor. Tonight I think he had a pear for tea but will always eat cake. DCMY I reckon he'd polish off sketty (spaghetti hoops) any day but he's not had the chance. Anyone been reading the post about childhood food - tinned ravioli and angel delight real favourites of mine!

suzi2 · 14/02/2008 20:59

Nice to hear of all the lovely birthdays. No corners turned here... DD still a grouch lol. It was a fluke as she has the cold.

We're having a real shoe nightmare here. Not sure if I posted about this a few weeks ago so apologies if this is repeated. Basically, DD started walking around Xmas time and was doing more and more. So we thought we'd better try and get her something for her feet as she was wanting to go outside a bit. Because she wasn't walking well, we went to get her some cruisers a few weeks ago (not ready for shoes) and she was finally a size 2 which was great. Only problem was her feet were such an odd shape we couldn't get a fit. The lady in the shop told us to bring her back when DS was getting his new ones in a few weeks to try again as her feet may have flattened out a bit by then.

Anyway, that was today. Problem now is that she's walking properly and well and needs more support than a cruiser. Luckily startrite do a first shoe in a size 2. But the foot shape problem still stands. Her feet are too chubby in parts, shallow/thin at the heel and with a high instep. Lady said all she could recommend was we try again in another couple of weeks.

Meanwhile DD is driving us batty as she's wanting to walk everywhere and her shoo shoos just aren't sturdy enough for outdoors.

Anyone hadd this problem before? Know of any places that do shoes for babies that have feet shaped like hooves? My dad says she's also sprouting horns to match those hooves...

babydriver · 16/02/2008 22:10

Hello all. Not been on for a while, thanks to having gone back to work and not figured out yet how to fit everything in! All going OK. The nipper seems to be enjoying nursery and he and big bro both made lovely valentines cards there. Nipper eats nearly everything (and has had monster amounts last two days, esp tonight's fish pie) but certainly doesn't sleep as long as the books suggest - 7:45ish through to 5:45 if we're lucky, then prob another 2 hrs during the day in a couple of stints.

tricky problem on the footwear front suzi2. Have you tried another shop? Or posting elsewere on MN? Might also be worth looking at websites with sheepskin slippers & shoes etc in case there's someone out there making shooshoo type things with stronger soles?

peachy, meet-up wd be good, but would probably have to be on a Mon/Tues as I work the other days.

SmudgeMum · 17/02/2008 12:49

Ok girls....... 3 days late, feeling rather icky. Do I go and buy a test?

MoosMa · 17/02/2008 17:00

Woohoo - 2 under 2!!

Yes buy a test and tell us, tell us!

SmudgeMum · 18/02/2008 12:31

We went out for the day yesterday and DH got the car today so can't get to any shops. Will do a test tonight if DH remembers to buy it and then do a quick post. Going away tomorrow with DS for the rest of the week so hope I'm ok. I'm excited but thinking bloody hell too

peachygirl · 18/02/2008 20:42

ooh smudgemum we will be tapping our fingers til you come back.
Baby driver I'll see who else wants to come then open a debate about days to meet.

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SmudgeMum · 18/02/2008 22:54

Ummm, (whispers because it's still a secret as such early days) - it's positive!!
I will go away and be in denial and then think about what the bloody hell this is going to mean for us, when I get back. have a good week and weekend everyone. Happy Birthday to all those who are one this week!

marmitemad · 19/02/2008 10:24

congratulations smudgemum, am very

marmitemad · 19/02/2008 10:25

and

MoosMa · 19/02/2008 11:24

Congratulations

I must admit I am a bit too, after all we've said about NO MORE we're now thinking that actually it might not be a Bad Thing if one day another little baby tiptoed into our house............

Have a nice time Smudgemum and don't think too hard!

suzi2 · 19/02/2008 13:53

congrats smudgemum. I'm an insy bit but mostly not lol. I had 2 under 2 for a while there... and it's a good age gap ... eventually!

Hope you have a nice time away.

peachygirl · 19/02/2008 18:58

Wow congratulations smudgemum. I seem to be meeting more and more pregnant ladies at the moment. My neighbour is expecting again, one of my antenatal friends and a work colleague. I know it's too soon for us.
I'm on my own tonight as DH is in Copenhagen.
Originally I suggested me and DD went too but he said that he would be too busy at the conference and it wouldn't be worth it. but in the last few days he's been saying I wish you were coming... well, it's too late!!!!
It's my first night in this house on my own - without him I mean.

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marmitemad · 19/02/2008 19:08

are you feeling nervous, peachygirl?

I hate it when dh is away overnight and never sleep as well.

dd has been an absolute horror tonight during dinner, I felt so close to running away but just had lots of "count to 10s" in the other room. she has just gone to bed fine and dh is finally on his way home from London.

daizydoo · 20/02/2008 05:34

Congrats Smudgemum. I too am !!

Thanks to all who have given advice re food and sleep. I'm trying not to let the food thing get to me. Marmite (great to see you!), we have a terrible time most meal times - its worse when DS is tired though! Sleeping is the nightmare at the moment. Spends very little time in the cot, it wouldnt be so bad, but he tosses and turns in the bed. I'm sick of being kicked in the stomach - but hey ho I guess that's motherhood!!

DS turned one yesterday. Step-mother in law organised a party on Sat which was great, but she did goody bags with endless amounts of crap in!! Bless my LO went straight for the apple!! . DH's aunt thought that DS is socially disadvantaged because he doesn't eat lots of sugary things like the other children! (some who were a similar age!)or am I a killjoy mum? Yesterday we just had a quiet day - I took DS to the local zoo. It was great to see his reaction to all the animals!

Peachy - hope you had a good night.

MoosMa · 20/02/2008 20:19

T had a lovely birthday today, we went to the swings in the afternoon as it's her favourite thing and we had a few friends with us making a fuss of her. I've put a couple of photos in my profile of her cake - it was a 1 shape covered in butter cream and decorated by DD1 with cherries, smarties and chocolate buttons, yum!

MoosMa · 24/02/2008 09:00

Oh dear I seem to have killed the thread .

Ah well, while no one's looking - happy birthday me!

daizydoo · 24/02/2008 17:10

I dont know where everybody else is - but Happy Birthday Moosma!!