bumper, as everyone is saying, I'm sure it's the move etc that has made everyone a bit jittery.
WRT feeds, I find that if I feed DD at 10ish, she always, but always wakes at 3ish, but if I miss the 10 o clock one and put her down after her feed at 7ish, she generally sleeps through (obviously we get the odd night where she goes mental and wakes at 2, but generally we're OK). As HHNF says, it's worth a go. Also if you can get in as many feeds as possible during the day, she should take enough milk on to get her through the night. Not sure what to suggest about your DH, but if you want to continue with the BF you really need his support. It is such a short time out of your lives, even though it seems like forever at the moment.
Me time is very important though and I suppose parenting is all about finding the right balance and doing what works for you.
(I hope that doesn't sound preachy....scared to say anything too controversial lest I offend/upset now)
Charlie, by nanny do you mean grandma...or are you reeely posh and have a nanny?
DD still hasn't rolled over (well done baby Norty ), but her latest party trick is blowing raspberries on my boob. I try not to laugh when she does it, but it is sooooo funny . I only hope she doesn't try it when we're feeding discreetly in the corner of a cafe or somewhere.