annobal.....i get dd ready for bed while DS gets himself ready (he's 5 and quite capable, he even brushes his own teeth now)). he then sits in bed reading while i feed dd and put her down. i then read him his bedtime story before collapsing on sofa with large glass of wine.
well that's the theory anyway...
...usually more like me shouting at ds to get ready whilst dd screams her head off as i've poured water up her nose, then ds kicks off and has huge tantrum about getting ready himself so i have to leave dd screaming while i scrub his face and teeth. then he won't leave me alone when i'm feeding dd and i get cross and dd refuses to feed so i have to jiggle her up and down to stop her crying whilst reading ds his story or the story gets refused by me as punishment for his stroppiness. finally get him in bed, her fed and settled before collapsng in a sobbing heap on the sofa with a bottle of gin...no tonic
and i usually bath dd in the morning, but only if she really needs one, otherwise a good wash with a flannel, and ds only has two baths a week cos he gets scratchy skin otherwise.