Right - noo is asleep, gene is happy in his bouncy chair, I'm showered and dressed (with the top button done up on my jeans ), so here goes...
Had ante-natal check on thursday and everything was fine, they said they would do a sweep the following week if nothing had happened.
Friday morning at about 6ish I had a period pain like cramp and wondered if it was a contraction. Got up to prepare noo's breakfast and felt a few more, so at about 7.15 I went in to wake DH up to see if he could get noo up and ready for nursery as I wasn't sure what was going on. Within half an hour I was pretty sure I was in labour, so I called the hospital while DH took noo to nursery and they told me to have a bath and call them after that as I was still able to cope with the contractions.
DH came back while I was in the bath and I started crying because I decided I didn't want to go through labour again (lol!). When I got out the bath the contractions were getting really strong so I just about managed to get dressed and in the car for DH to drive us to the hospital. It has to have been the worst car ride of my life! Thank god we have tinted windows in the back as I was crawling all around the back of the car trying to get comfortable, which was of course impossible. I thankfully had the foresight to take a plastic container with me as I also ended up being sick in the car. There was a lot of swearing and seat clawing going on and DH is sure some people though he had a kidnap victim in the car.
Thankfully we didn't hit too much traffic as we were travelling in rush hour. Managed to get out of the car at the front entrance of the hospital, crying, then has to kneel over one of the chairs in reception as a contraction hit me. They couldn't find a wheelchair, but they managed to clear a lift and take me straight up. Had to kneel over another chair when I got out of the lift and then had to get lifted into the delivery room.
I was a walking cliche, I'm to say the following did leave my lips: 'Make it go away', 'I want an epidural', 'I don't care, just get it in now!', 'I can't do it', 'It hurts'.
The epidural worked for about an hour but then it must have slipped a bit because the top ups didn't work. I got to the hospital at about 9ish and was 6cms, by 11.15 I was fully dilated and they broke my waters, and Gene was born at 11.49. I couldn't believe it had all happened so quick. The arrival was very emotional and very different to noo's. No placenta probs this time, and no tears
We were left alone to do quite a bit of bonding this time, although DH went to pick up noo from nursery so that she wasn't too freaked out by being kept there all day. My dads DP came up to look after noo and will be here with us for a few more days to help us out, which is working well as noo is still getting all the attention she needs.
Managed to get a bath and get dressed before going to my room, which was great. However, I must say the after care was non-existant, so much so that we're thinking of writing a letter of complaint. I made it clear that we wanted to go home as soon as possible, DH went home on friday night and brought noo back with him on saturday morning so that she could meet Gene and we could all go home together. Got home by lunchtime yesterday and made DH buy pate and brie for lunch .
Didn't get much sleep last night again due to afterpains, and the fact I have a cold. Feeling a bit more alive today though .
I'm sure more details will come to me, but I think thats enough to be getting on with for now! Will post pics soon, as will pose for some more today now I'm feeling a bit more human.