Morning all 
Well I'm not sure if J knows that his grandad is gone and is expressing himself accordingly, or if the 4 month blues have arrived, or if God forbid he's teething, but we've gone back to three wakes a night when he was reliably doing just one! 
Luckily he's not too bad at dropping back off, but it feels like he keeps waking me up at the worst point in my sleep cycle, so I'm just knackered today. Doesn't help that I had awful dreams about the funeral director turning up unannounced with the coroners report - I have to ring them today and I'm not looking forward to it 
On the plus side, DH has some old friends coming over to visit so I think they're going to play pool and get pissed which will do him the world of good!
Lauren, I really feel for you, I can't imagine having to leave such a little baby! The good thing is that he will certainly not remember it or hold it against you, he's too little, and he won't forget about you, because you're his mama and he loves you completely If the baby ward is anything like postnatal then there'll be a zillion midwives hanging about and he'll have all the attention he needs! Try to take advantage of the unbroken sleep whilst you can xxx
Yay for weight gain Min! Aha so satisfying when they put on 
I haven't weighed J in ages, but he's a right chubber, so haven't felt the need... Can babies be too fat? 