I feed as soon as she wakes because otherwise she'd just scream at me. I think there is a difference there with bf and ff though as it'll depend on the length of R's naps - formula should keep her tummy full for longer than bm so I guess she may not be hungry every time she wakes up? Babywil still pretty much only eats and sleeps though.
zyla, I think wind really might be one of your problems if she doesn't burp much. If I don't get loads of wind up I know that either she'll cry when laid flat, or within 20 minutes will be writhing around making noises and won't settle.
Popz really sorry to hear that, must be quite traumatic for you. What treatment does she need whilst waiting on transplant list?
Tried the dreamfeed with MiniWil and I had the same 'don't wake a sleeping baby' motto as Ness so it felt wrong immediately. It was hard to get her to take the feed, then when she had- first time she projectile vomited it back up, all over me, the walls and the carpet. Second time was sick - although not as badly but was fully awake after being sick and screamed for ages. Both times she woke up only an hour after she would have done anyway and so didn't change how often I was up in the night. Unsurprisingly I gave it up after those two nights.