PR that sounds bloody awful. We had to battle to get dsd into the ward to see F when she was born - because she wasn't my child, they were very arsey about it, which was a bit harsh given that she is Fs big sister. They were strict about numbers as well - definitely no more than partner + 2 more so glad for that though
Brockle dsd has school dinners. Her dm picks her meals out in advance for her, but I don't imagine for one minute that, just because roast dinner is put on her plate, she eats roast dinner would be a miracle Packed lunches all round in this house! Mash and cake sounds nice though 
Kyz lovely names, she is a bundle of cuteness.