stunt thank you for this. You have no idea how much I needed to read all these things. Well actually, you did know, which is why you suggested this thread starter. But anyway, thank you 
Had an ok day today, went to the hairdressers and the shops by myself. which should have been great but I was too tired to appreciate it. I know I will feel better for it though, as having bad roots always depresses me. Shallow but true.
I hope you are having lovely days. Mothers Day tomorrow, should be a very special one, especially for the first time mums amongst us. Anyone have any nice plans?