Scheh I don'y know if anyone else has suggested this but you're almost certainly entitled to Maternity Allowance if you can't get SMP. Look it up on DirectGov and apply straight away as they will only backdate it for 3 months (I'm on MA so know all about it
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Also I'm a SAHM after being made redundant during ML with DD1 and I do not see myself as a drain on DH's resources. If it weren't for me he wouldn't have two beautiful children, I am a very loving wife
not to mention all the bloody hard work I do in the home - he lived in squalour before I moved in and now our house is clean and tidy (most days), his washing is done for him and his dinners are cooked for him. I'm not a domestic slave (or try not to be), he does the washing up and all the DIY-type jobs and he gets up with DD1 in the mornings so I can have an extra hour in bed. I work every bit as hard as he does, it's just unpaid (and often unseen and unappreciated) work.
Oh and I'm not that into 'playing' with DD1 either! I do like reading to her but even that can get trying when she wants the same book over and over and over (toddlers do love repetition don't they). Whereas DH loves playing with her and doesn't seem to get bored.
Right will catch up with the thread now