Hi all,sorry for no posting but my text was coming out really slowly but only on here and it was taking about ten minutes to write one line.I even startyed a thread about it if you dont believe me.
Well hubbard Dilly slept all night last night for first time in months here is what i did.
She woke at 10 and we picked her up,soothed her but not rocked her,then put in cot when she was calm,left room for 2 mins then back and repeat.Eventually she was so tired she gave up and nodded of in cot with us patting her bum.Took 20 mins.
We repeted this every time she woke-3 times.
Next night,woke twice did the same.
Next night woke once did the same.
Next night woke once farted and then cried,i shsh patted her back to sleeep in her cot.
Next night she woke and cried but back to sleep.
Last night woke at 3 farted loudly sounded awake but went back off.
I also looked at less milk in day so she ate more food and encouraged/forced longer naps in day.
HTH.
Dilly is so funny atm.She is Ella obsessed and prefers her to us.She calls for her if she isnt around too. She went to Mums yesterday while i went to work.WQhen id gone she sat by the front door crying-she didnt see me leave btw.She then latched onto Mum and wouldnt go to sd or dsis.
Went to work to see wanker boss.He was an hour late.He was then surprised that i had 6 weeks leave to take by April.I told him he should have kept in touch then id have taken some by now.I asked about doing some kit days this month to get some money,am still awaiting his response. I have a busy workload ahead some clients in Somerset-could visit emski Told him he could pay for a train as i am not getting a car allowance any more,felt very assertive.I am back on the 9th jan and will work Mon and Tues and have plety of leave 
Pil are coming on Sat.3 of the fuckers!I am off shopping in Brum with Ella and 2 friends.Have planned to stay overnight but am in a bit of a dilemma.I feel overly rude not coming back,and dh is so good with my boys i feel i should make an effort with his family, BUT i know it will totally stress me out having 3 of them sleeping all over the place and taking over my house especially with the x factor final on
but dh would like me to be here, I also never get to see my friend in brum much.If i come back Sunday am and cook a nice roast aibu? I really would welcome your honest opinions. BTW sil (bils partner) hasnt even seen Dilly yet and makes no effort so why should i iyswim.
Poor ds2 isnt getting any better,I have to find out about his benefit entitlements as i feel he should stop working now,he is ver ill but they dont do dialysis untill the very last minute.
Sorry its a mememe post but i will have a catch up and se what you have all been up to.