OOh thanks Tipex - but you didn't need to do that, did wonder if you wanted to keep the anonymity but I am just tooo nosey !
not sure if we would use our boys name, if we had a boy. it was a bit of a compromise so I think I would push for a different one as dd's name was dh's choice in the end (although only decided on in the theatre once she'd been born !!). I would certainly consider the options...