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June '05 Mummies 5 - the one with lots of smiles, and lots of cuddles.

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katzguk · 07/10/2005 17:24

one brand new shiney thread, title thanks to eym.

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eastyorksmum · 10/10/2005 10:56

awwwww Lynny hunny im so gald little jess is better, dont feel bad about the rusk, you werent to know.

I tryed william with some yogurt the other day he loved it, and he finnlay filled his nappy, he doesnt go every day and were so relived when he does. lol poo watch again.

trib im sorry your all not sleeping well, in trib household, were abit hit and miss here william woke three times last nite, first time 12 30 i just stroked his forehead and held his hand and he went back over, other two times he wanted a feed and nappy changing two days are never the same.huh

Lummox my nick comes from where i live hunny, ey up chuck , ill go to the foot of our stairs lol

Sfmum is so sorry for your sad loss, i lost my mum too last november its been very hard for me to com to terms with it, and having william just made me greive all over again, but i have a very caring hubby and lovely family to support me, and to be honest i do feel a lot better this month.

Me and all my sisters (4) are now all geting screened for breast cancer its the only way to be aware and maybe pre empt it happening to us.

right william just woke from his nap have a lovely day mums love to you all xxxxxxxxxx

katzguk · 10/10/2005 15:33

hi all#
well my little girl is 3 today!! we had a fab party yesterday, we hired the soft play bit if her nursery and she had13 friends there all dressed as fairies. i made a fantastic fairy castle cake.

Lynny - so sorry to here about your dd.

weaning - we up too 1oz of ebm with baby rice

nick name - katz - kathryn g - my surname uk - because i'm a brit.

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JonahB · 10/10/2005 19:02

Evening All,

Hope you are all fine and well.

Mrs Wed, I?m sorry to hear about your sleep deprivation. I?ve got absolutely nothing constructive to say, other than I?m thinking of you?..

Lynny, sorry to hear about your excema issues with Jess. Glad its getting better though. I?ll ask my friend, whose son is 2 and has quite bad excema, what she does?..

Hairloss? Coming out in handfuls at the moment . Like SFX, DS is helping the proceedings along nicely. Every time I look down into his chubby little fist, my hair is inevitably curled around his vice-like grip fingers.

Katz, happy birthday to your daughter!! I bet she loved the fairy theme. Aren?t you a great mum, making a cake and not just slouching off to Sainsburys?

Well, my week is going well so far. I?m quite excited this week, as my SIL is visiting from France tomorrow for a few days (we get on really well) and my brother plus his DS and DD, who haven?t met DS yet are coming up at the weekend (although I?m pointedly not mentioning the fact that my son is 4 months old and this is the first time they?ve seen him, he only lives in Essex!) So, lots of family, but should be fun. What else? DS is rolling loads. Well, as much as he can when he slows himself down. He hasn?t realized yet that rolling + thumb shoved in mouth don?t work too well. He loves his door bouncer and his massage class, which is lovely. Cant think of anything else much. I?m out with my boss on Wed night. Must remember to try v.v. hard to sound intelligent and not like a total jelly head. Oh god, slightly dreading it??

Take care all of your, hope you all get oodles of sleep tonight?.

JonahB · 10/10/2005 19:06

Oh yeah, my name. Its a bit sad really. In my first pgy (i miscarried) I nicknamed the bump Jonah. Jonah was eaten by a whale and i suspected (later to be proved right) that i would resemble one soon. The B was my surname. I didn't nickname DS when I was prgt with him, i just felt it was too unlucky. As i'd already been writing under the name, i decided to keep it. In memory i suppose. Sorry, not supposed to be a sad thread.

tribpot · 10/10/2005 19:16

Evening ladies.

I was very mean today. At 6 this evening I casually announced to dh on the way to the shop "perhaps we should pop in to the pub being as how it's our anniversary". (Of when we first met, not our wedding anniversary). He was moderately overcome with guilt at forgetting, but given he doesn't know what day of the week it is ever, I didn't really think he would remember.

Username. Right, mine is quite tragic in origin. One of the titles of the Emperor Augustus (and subsequent emperors) was "tribunicia potestas" meaning "the power of the tribunes of the plebs". The tribunes defended the rights of the plebs against the ruling class in Rome and it was sacrilege to harm them in any way. I seem to recall the Senate first voted this right to Julius Caesar (which he totally did not deserve being neither a tribune nor a pleb). Anyway, it is normally shortened on monuments and stuff to Trib Pot. Yes. Tis true. Why did I choose it? Dunno, I have the hotmail address for it, and I've always used either it or one of the other of Augustus' titles, which you will be able to guess from my yahoo id. I did Ancient History A Level at night school a few years ago and the interest has just stuck from then.

Weaning - none happening here yet, will review the situation in a few weeks I think depending on how ds is doing sleep-wise and tummy-wise. Funny to think that just a few years ago, we would be starting him on Wednesday (16 weeks) as a matter of course.

Now sorry to appear to be questioning everyone's weaning choices, and I know you have bags more experience than me EYM and Welshie, but are we meant to give them any dairy stuff? I figured that was a no no whilst cows' milk was? I will stress again, I am hyper cautious about this stuff because of dh, so just ignore me if I am being paranoid food allergist woman.

Lynny, I've just bought a couple of Annabel Karmel's books, including ths one . One of the reader reviews notes that most of the recipes are either completely or virtually wheat-free. Wheat-free cooking is my speciality so let me know if I can help out at all, I'll keep you posted when ds is a bit older on what we're feeding him. In terms of follow-up, I would ask on Mumsnet generally (if you haven't already done so, sorry) and definitely push for a proper consultation for when Jess is a bit older. Glad she is doing so much better now anyway.

Welshie, definitely give sleep lady a call, I bend her ear practically every day, want to get my money's worth! Her latest comment has been about my daytime sleeps, when I basically feeding ds off to sleep because he likes it, and it means I get some more grub into him. She says "Quite honestly, if he wants to feed before sleeping during the day, I would let him". Hurrah for sleep lady!

Sfx, so sorry about your mum, and all the best for your sister as well. We are waiting for further tests tomorrow in order to know a bit more. My dh is the same if he has to watch ds during the day. When I've just flaked out in the morning he will sometimes come through and say "what do I DO with him?". Well, he'd better start figuring this stuff out soon given I have to go back to work in a couple of months. Have you been to see Serenity yet, btw? I think we may get a chance to go once we're in the process of moving and thus 'have' to go and stay with my parents for the weekend.

Oh, one final question: swaddling. Are we still doing it? Ds still likes it but is increasingly waking himself up when he gets an arm out and starts flailing it about everywhere. I think the answer is a custom-made straitjacket, but I wonder if we should be trying to wean him off swaddling at this stage?

welshmum · 10/10/2005 19:55

Trib - sure you're right about the dairy and I wouldn't give ds a whole yogurt but I figure the merest hint on my finger won't do much damage....2nd time mum = slacker
I might ring the sleep lady again but basically when ds is ill I'll pander to his every whim, that said he is loads better today - back to his cheery little self.
And you win the cleverest MN name so far - much more impressive than my feeble stating of the bleedin' obvious.

I went back into town today and took my boots back - that's the 2nd pair I've returned. Am very fussy about boots....

redheadmum · 10/10/2005 20:58

welshie I ve just CAT you for sleep lady details hope that s ok - am not able to get boy settled to go down at ttling night! he s in my arms now - hane been settling him since 6.30........

my name...don t think it needs explanation? I'm a simple soul.......

weaning - not bothering if at all possible til 6 months or maybe a bit later if i'm super lazy and he s doing ok

hair loss-yep clumps coming out now

its my dd s birthday on thurs - was gonna take her to see wallace and gromit but its only on at weekends!!! anyone got ideas for a 3 yr old? will go to our local pizza express and get them to sing happy birthday to her but wanted to do a kid thing...got party on sat but wanted to do something on the day

i fell down the stairs on sun!!! it was a wierd experiece and just getting the bruises - lovely

i m feeling a bit shut in at the mo - anyone else? really need to get ds onbottle gonna try MAM when i can get organised to buy them

KVG · 10/10/2005 22:19

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welshmum · 11/10/2005 07:33

Red - have sent you the details of sleep lady.
3 year olds....mmm...farm? soft play? going to see some fountains? new big park? zoo? All things dd likes. Have a lovely lovely time.

mandymac · 11/10/2005 08:11

Morning Ladies.

Think I might be joining some of you with the sleep problems. We had a very weird night with DD:

Bed & Sleep by 6.45pm.
Feed 10.15pm
Awake & feed 2.30am
Ditto 4.30 am
Ditto 6.00am
Ditto 7.10am - which I decided was wakeup time. Normally after the feed at 10, we just have one night feed between 3-4am. Arrrgh I really hope this was just a one off, but from what some of you are saying I'm worried this is a new 'phase' .

What do you reckon???

KVG · 11/10/2005 08:40

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sfxmum · 11/10/2005 09:02

dear juniesmorning all

good night was had. dd was asleep at 7.30pm feed at 11pm slept till 3.30 and that was it. she also wakes up before 7 but her dad spends some time with her until 8. happy with this anyway.

better than previous night when both dd and dh were up at all hrs. dh lovely man that he is deals with own illness like every other man, a tummy ache appears life threatning

welshie and red- hope things get better. i heard the same about weaning / sleep, was also told not to attempt any changes when she is not settled.

plan to start on baby rice next week,(dd be 19wks) following book trib mentioned. was planning to hold out till 6M but want things to be established for when i get back to work.

lynny- glad things better

trib- not seen it yet, might have to access it by other means but would like solo trip to cinema. site looks great reminds me of old WB.

mrsW- hope family goes well.

EYM-my mum was 21yrs ago and i really do feel for you. this early grief should not be rushed and its important that you allow yourself to feel and also live to the fullest. lots hugs

nickname-very lazy really. am a big old geek who among many things likes sci-fi and fantasy, sfx best mag on that took it with me to hospital and keept me amused. also think special effects needed in this motherhood business.

lua · 11/10/2005 10:13

Morning all,

Have been lurking, but too tired to express myself...

Mandy - For your sake I hope this was a one off. Because if my household is anything to go by, this new awaking often is a loooooong phase....
We had two nights where things were a bit better and then went downhill again. It is possible, since I have a bit of a cold, that he is a bit ill andin need of more confort/food.
On the baby weaning, I am trying to hold off a little longer,but just saw this article that got me thinking.... We do have family history of allergies,so I'll have to be careful. However, I'll definetely try to give DS more complex foods (i.e.mixture of things). DD is in general a good eater,but she got too used to have everything in separate portions, IYKWIM...

Katz - Happy birthday to your DD! My DD'sbirthday is coming up and she would be delighted with what you did.. Can I steal your idea? BTW, did you buy all the fairy outfits?

Jonah - enjoy the relatives!!

MrsW (and ?) -How did the negotiations at the job went?

Trib - When is the move coming up?

lua · 11/10/2005 10:16

P.s.:
SFX mum - I decided that my DS's problem is "man teething"! Which needs to go on for a whole month. DD was never bothered!

Welshie, I'mwith you that eventually this little guy will have to learn to sleep, whatever it takes! But... have you decided when is his deadline? I'm thinking by 6 months we will go into CC if we need to. What do you think?

katzguk · 11/10/2005 11:55

lua - feel free to steal the fairy idea, we only supplied the fairy outfits for our DD's. DD1 had a fairy costume from Woolworths and for DD2 we got a tiny little outfit from Toysrus. I can send you the details for making the cake if you would like. it was actually very easy, all bought cakes and pink buttericing, when i get the photos back i will post one. i can even send you the invites we designed as well! i used powerpoint and got it to print 4 slides to one page

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welshmum · 11/10/2005 11:55

Lua - my little one is much better now so we had a relatively good night last night - feed at 1130 and 3ish. I'm going to let him settle back into his 2 feeds a night pattern and then wait and see how he does when I introduce formula and solids at around 24 weeks. If this doesn't start reducing the night feeds it's hello yelling - with dd it took just one night to sort it out.....

eastyorksmum · 11/10/2005 12:49

morning mums hugsss

wow all our june baby s are changing sleep patterns thats strange as william is the youngest i tink 13 weeks friday.

anyway last nite went sonmething like this

bath bed for 730
wake 1230 tryed cuddle back to sleep, but wiils ws hungry so fed him. settled sleep again
wake 2am settle sleep
wake 4am feed sleep
wake 6am feed seep
wake 7 got so fed up took him in bed with me sleep
woke 9 30 we got up

he has got a bit of snuffles
pray we get sleep tonite
and daddy is full of cold and on a course in leeds grrrrrrrrr

so maybe its this , although william just snacks during the day i did tell my HV she says thats fine.

Katz what alovely idea bless you , what a lovely mummy you are and happy birthday for your litle girl hugs.

Lua yay your back wondered how you were getting on big hugs to you and your family.

thank you all for your kinds words about my mum, she alwys said i make the best friends xxxxx

Ok my sis gill called me the other day, she went to get monitered and they werent to happy with result so so they told her go for a walk and come back the peaks were better then, ive got to say im so worried for my sis she will a have another scan on thursday and then another growth scan next week.

she does seem to be coping better i just hope she can come to terms with the fact that baby may need to be brought early im going up to see her next week maybe.

off for a walk to shops lol wake me up chat later have a lovely morning mums xxxxxxxx

redheadmum · 11/10/2005 13:15

thanks Welshie have just called the Sleep Lady - she sounds lovely. Just have to get the Dh on board now....

"routine"

bath kids together about 6 aiming for a 7 put down for Dd1 and 7.30 for ds 2

girl goes down
boy feeds, and feeds, and feeds
I put him down, he wakes up
I put him down, he wakes up
and so on until I bring him downstairs so I can watch TV and eat my tea, then he's exhausted by around 10 I feed him and he goes to sleep. So do I

then wakes around 1, 3, 5, 7 for feeds (mummy dummy I think)

and the day begins!!

btw sorry to be such a moaner on the double put down..have pulled myself together and getting on with it now. Still you all sound like they are peaceful and lovely whereas mine seem like barely contained chaos with one or the other about to or kicking off........

lua · 11/10/2005 13:33

RHM, your routine sounds very much like mine.
and FWIW, I think I moan more than you , and ground my husband! so you are clearly a better woman than I!

Katz- Do you still have my e-mail? Would love to get the instructions for the cake. I know exactly which outfit from woolies you are talking about - it was the one I was planning on buying!
Thanks!

redheadmum · 11/10/2005 13:35

thanks Lua, that's all the encouragement I need to let rip!!

you've got 2 haven't you? what are you thinking of doing about the sleep if anything? I don't know if I'll do the sleep lady straight away (have to talk to dh first, I'm sure he won't be too keen) but I really would like to be able to go out for an evening and/or get a nights sleep!

I need to start thinking about work soon (just freelancing bits) but just can't get it together at the mo

MrsWednesday · 11/10/2005 13:41

It's barely contained chaos in our house when it's double bedtime...there has been times when me, DS1 and DS2 have all ended up crying

Well there must be something in the air because DS2 was also up loads last night again (10.30, 2am, 4am, 7am...yawn). On top of that, DH was sick - loudly and repeatedly throughout the night. Why are men such f*ing drama queens when ill? He was so loud he woke up DS1 who was completely freaked out by all the noise, and he made sure I was up for every stage of his illness as well, so I didn't get more than an hour's sleep at at time before someone woke me up. Grrrrrr. DH didn't get any sympathy from me at all (will serve me right if I catch the same thing now after all my complaining about him )

DS2 has nodded off so I really should go and join him in a nap. Will catch up properly later.

bubbaloo · 11/10/2005 14:06

Afternoon All,
I'm still around,lurking-just haven't really got anything to contribute at the mo.
Have been really busy and been to 2 mum and baby groups which were nice and finishing off wrapping christmas presents and writing cards.Gave ds a teeny bit of rusk mashed with formula yesterday and he ate it-very messy though!
Hope you all have better nights with your babies.

teabelly · 11/10/2005 17:46

Hello Junies

Sorry haven't been able to post all mad in the Tea household recently, and for the forseeable future...

Little brother over til end of October, so lots of day trips and visiting family/friends. Had my two nieces for most of last week whilst my sis and bro swanned off to Paris , organising dd's christening on Sunday coming, oh and dropping ds off at nursery every afternoon for 2 hours...arrrhhh love my family but can't wait until November!

Hmmmmm been quickly skimming the thread and ...

Hair loss - by the bucket load - and if last time is anything to go by it goes on for ages

Sleep problems...oh boy with you guys there , and we've also managed to add a nice dummy dependancy into the fray for good measure

Weaning - sporadic, not taking it as quickly or enthusiastically as ds, and as I'm busy these days I'm to say I'm not pushing it for her too much...will try harder next week

Right I'd better go, have a meeting with the vicar tonight...will catch up with you asap, take care x

Oh yes and those pesky mice are back...every year without fail, the farmer opposite harvests and we get lodgers ...Mrs W I may set up the water bucket/ladder combo you suggested last year, he he he!

katzguk · 11/10/2005 18:53

lua - yep got your email, will scan them in and send them to you

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