as for age gap,ours just happened (i had an implant
wouldnt recommend them btw)
but from experiance,id say it would have been better if dd was at nursery at least some of the time...
so if you can afford to put them into a nursery then a tiny age gap is fine,if not,i'd wait until the older child qualify's for the free childcare vouchers and are in nursery 3 days a week...that would be heaven ...
if fact so much so we are bugeting tonight to see if we can squeeze an extra £50 a week (for two sessions)out of dp's wages/savings
as for the sick,id always though it was normal,and as long as they are putting on weight and not in pain,i wouldnt rush to put them on any meds.i hated giving them to dd,put she screamed in pain all day long,Arlo however,pukes all the time,but doesnt seem to mind,and is in 6-9 clothes (he's really long!) so i certainly wont be medicating him...it is a PITA though,i hate washing so many clothes!! grrr
arlo is still really ill,the coughing is really bad,going to the doctor tomorow about it,as he's been ill for ages now
does any one know why maria-annwas in hospital!? is she okay?