Tomlin/SK - hope you had/are having a great time in CP, we were at Sherwood back in July and loved it. :)
Pigley - I know you mentioned separate bank accounts but dh and my wages/maternity pay both go into the same account which is use for bill, food, clothes for all of us and treats etc... What's his is mine and I wouldn't feel guilty for treating any of us with the money as providing childcare is just as valuable and often harder than going to work. I think you should take some of the money and go on a massive spending spree for yourself, buy some lovely new clothes and make-up and get some confidence back. :) We have the same clothes issues with dd1 too, very skinny, especially now she's in knickers, the only legging we have which are tight are aged 1-11/2 and she's 2.9 years.
ML - I really have no advice as I've never been through a break-up never mind a divorce since I was 17 which doesn't really count. I feel for your kids so much, it's such a change for them. I hope you are getting great advice and taking some time for yourself, it must be so hard to stay strong for the dc.
Den - don't blame you for being pissed of at your dh, it's so much easier when there's two of you. Hope he wasn't too late. Oh, just read that he was very late! 
for you, that's totally inconsiderate, hope you made him suffer with a hangover.
Vits - took folic acid religeously (sp?) with dd1 till 16 weeks and she had loads of hair, hardly took it with dd2 and although she was born with loads of hair too can't help but think that may have been linked to her birth defect :( [guilty mammy emoticon]
Cupcake - glad you had a good holiday. DD regressing here too and has been up a lot through the night for the last few weeks, we're trying to keep her in her room of we can manage to stay awake during the night feeds to actually take her back in. We've started weaning too, she's having porridge for breakfast and supper.
Mustbemad - good to hear from you again, glad lilia is doing well.
First1 - my boobs are the same size but they feel quite empty and lack any fullness, they did this after dd1 who I only fed for 2-3 days. It's pants isn't it :(
Heffa - we're the same here with colds and sniffles, Grace's 16 week injections have been cancelled three times, fourth time lucky on Tuesday.
Hormonal - nice to hear from you, sorry your having a tough time. Yeah for ds potty training though, hope dd1's problems at school are sorted. No advice about the feeding though maybe you'll get more time once she starts to wean.
Pamelat - so sorry about your friend :(, devastating for all the family involved and even harder to deal with once you become a mum. :(
WLTK - sounds like teething, bonjela, calpol, teethers and cuddles all round I think. Did your friend have a reason to leave? Might need more details before we can say whether or not to end the friendship, plus a holiday in Miami sounds nice :o
Coffeebeans - welcome to the thread, pleased Brandon is doing well after a rough start. Not sure if you have managed to get any of us on fb but if you want you can send someone a private message with your name on so we can search and add you. :)
Right, better go, hope I haven't missed anyone, Grace is still asleep on her mat on the floor, but is starting to stir.