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Anne Widdicombe Suspicious Death

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AClassicTrenchcoat · 10/07/2026 15:36

Suspicious death, suspected murder. Think there is a press conference soon.

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JoshLymanSwagger · 11/07/2026 10:01

Mischance · 11/07/2026 10:00

It is entirely possible to be horrified by the manner of her death, whilst also recognizing that many of her views were unacceptable (not to say bigoted) and caused distress to many, and that some of her actions supported policies that have proved detrimental to the country.

Doesn't make it less distasteful.

Especially while her murderer is still on the loose...

Boomer55 · 11/07/2026 10:02

Mischance · 11/07/2026 09:56

I think it is fine to say you did not like someone's views - or indeed, like me, found them abhorrent, when they have died. People do not suddenly convert to being saints when they die.

I am sure her relatives are fully aware of the fact that many were offended by her views - at this point when people are looking back on her life this is bound to come up. That is not a problem.

I said upthread, I shared none of her political views.

But, I still find it very sad that a lone woman has been killed in her own home.

Yes, her life will be discussed, and she will be criticised, but this soon, it’s just a time to express condolences.

No need to pick over her bones quite so soon. 🙄

LuckyHazelFox · 11/07/2026 10:03

TransportNerd · 11/07/2026 09:59

But she carried those views to her grave and never addressed the harm she did. At least I'm trying to live better now.

I've apologised to the people I've wronged.

Carried them to her grave?

Fucking hell, I am out of here. I need a shower.

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 11/07/2026 10:03

She opposed fox hunting - so she couldn't have been wholly bad.

NotDavidTennant · 11/07/2026 10:04

TransportNerd · 11/07/2026 09:59

But she carried those views to her grave and never addressed the harm she did. At least I'm trying to live better now.

I've apologised to the people I've wronged.

It seems to me that you're projecting your own past views on to Ann Widdecombe in order to feel better about yourself.

JoshLymanSwagger · 11/07/2026 10:04

LuckyHazelFox · 11/07/2026 10:03

Carried them to her grave?

Fucking hell, I am out of here. I need a shower.

Me too.

Some of the comments on this thread are unpleasant, others are down right offensive.

Newmeagain · 11/07/2026 10:06

Daygloboo · 11/07/2026 08:13

No , you're probably right, but I cant help thinking it was very hot. Didnt someone say she had said ahe'd slipped in the shower a couple of days before ? Maybe she already had an injury and then collapsed with the heat and hit her head. The man has been released is all I'm saying.

The police are not stupid and if they have opened an investigation then I am sure there is clear evidence of a suspicious death.

in the past there have been cases where murders of elderly people were initially treated as deaths from natural causes - simply because of the unchallenged assumption that if an elderly person dies, it must have been a fall, heart attack, etc. fortunately I think the police have learnt from their past mistakes.

Daygloboo · 11/07/2026 10:07

PeachOctopus · 11/07/2026 09:52

She was a staunch Catholic, she had views on homosexuality that see it as sinful that are in line with Catholicism. She was also friends with gay men such as Dan Wootton, she was not abusive to gay men on a personal level. Many Muslims including some in my own family also hold these views, I don’t agree with them but they are widely held in staunch religious communities.
She was against the over expansion of Trans rights, as are many others.
She spoke out against Tommy Robinson, she wanted to slow down immigration to Britain as do half the population, it it silly to characterise her as anything more than a Conservative Catholic.

I dont understand why if you put a 'religious frame' around peoples beliefs that suddenly makes it something we have to tiptoe round and ' respect' . Why ? They are just views like anybody else's. They dont have special status. It's shouldn't be used as an excuse for abhorrent views and bad behaviour..

Mischance · 11/07/2026 10:09

Anyone, with any ounce of dignity and class would refrain from making negative comments at such a time. - but she did not refrain from such comments when she was alive and caused lots of people endless distress.

One can abhor the manner of her death whilst also recognising and stating the damage she did.

TealShark · 11/07/2026 10:09

Where I mentioned shutting down views, literally people have copied in MNHQ to close down this thread!

TransportNerd · 11/07/2026 10:10

Daygloboo · 11/07/2026 10:07

I dont understand why if you put a 'religious frame' around peoples beliefs that suddenly makes it something we have to tiptoe round and ' respect' . Why ? They are just views like anybody else's. They dont have special status. It's shouldn't be used as an excuse for abhorrent views and bad behaviour..

It actually makes it worse. In my own case, as a naive and young person, I was pressured into holding views I now find abhorrent by church leaders who pushed a very strong narrative that sounded pretty convincing.

Many years later I can see I was taken advantage of by people with a very nasty agenda. Many people with extreme religious views are driven far more by fear and hate than principle.

WaffleParty · 11/07/2026 10:11

Dollymylove · 11/07/2026 09:59

Imagine the terror she must have felt in her final moments. Imagine if it was the grandma of those spewing their bile.
What an awful world we have created for our future generations 🙄

It is not “spewing bile” to acknowledge that some of the things she stood for made life more difficult for some people.
It is possible to discuss this while also feeling huge sympathy for her and her family after this terrible crime.

TealShark · 11/07/2026 10:11

“The implied question, ‘Is nothing sacred?’, should always be answered with a stoical ‘No.’”

Daygloboo · 11/07/2026 10:13

Newmeagain · 11/07/2026 10:06

The police are not stupid and if they have opened an investigation then I am sure there is clear evidence of a suspicious death.

in the past there have been cases where murders of elderly people were initially treated as deaths from natural causes - simply because of the unchallenged assumption that if an elderly person dies, it must have been a fall, heart attack, etc. fortunately I think the police have learnt from their past mistakes.

Well, yes, obviously one would hope that if it is a murder then the person who did it will be caught.

OneAmberFinch · 11/07/2026 10:13

RIP Ann, what an awful way to go.

I have sometimes used her as an example of something I really admire about British society, and I think this isn't universal to everywhere (I have mixed ancestry including British and others, and I think it is much more true on the British side): there is an honoured place for women who don't marry or have children, even as they age.

I've been reading comments here, and on Reddit/X etc, and one common theme is that in amongst the "die in hell hag" comments, universally every comment that mentions meeting her in person says they found her sparky, warm, intelligent, witty etc. I think regardless of whether you shared her politics, it's wonderful that culturally we have a role for women like her to live her life to the fullest extent as she did. I know some people might find that obvious but I don't think it's a universal cultural value.

ToohotToohotToohot · 11/07/2026 10:18

WaffleParty · 11/07/2026 10:11

It is not “spewing bile” to acknowledge that some of the things she stood for made life more difficult for some people.
It is possible to discuss this while also feeling huge sympathy for her and her family after this terrible crime.

It is possible to discuss this while also feeling huge sympathy for her and her family after this terrible crime.

But not at the same time, in the same thread, within 48 hours of an ongoing murder investigation.

It would far more sensitive to appreciate there is a time and place for everything.

I'm sure the OP didn't start her thread as a debate about opinions on AW.

ToohotToohotToohot · 11/07/2026 10:20

TealShark · 11/07/2026 10:09

Where I mentioned shutting down views, literally people have copied in MNHQ to close down this thread!

What do you mean 'literally copied in MNHQ'?

C8H10N4O2 · 11/07/2026 10:20

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 11/07/2026 08:45

Social media has a lot to answer for. Someone was talking on R4 earlier about how if you post a picture of your breakfast on social media you can expect nobody else to care, but if you post your political views, especially if they're quite extreme, you get lots of attention and the algorithms direct more people your way. It really doesn't help. Nuance has gone out of the window. More and more younger people appear to believe that unless someone's views on every single issue are in alignment with yours the other person must be a bigot and should be shunned and mocked at every turn. There's also the problem that a great many people are now unable to read longer pieces of prose and make sense of them.

Social media delivers the content but for most of social media people are curating their own little bubbles.

When someone says “this only happens from Group X” it tells me they need to broaden their reading and try following people they don’t agree with as well as those who echo back their own opinions.

Daygloboo · 11/07/2026 10:21

TransportNerd · 11/07/2026 10:10

It actually makes it worse. In my own case, as a naive and young person, I was pressured into holding views I now find abhorrent by church leaders who pushed a very strong narrative that sounded pretty convincing.

Many years later I can see I was taken advantage of by people with a very nasty agenda. Many people with extreme religious views are driven far more by fear and hate than principle.

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I agree. I'm glad you were able to step back from it and see it clearly. I went to church ...Anglican....when I was young, until about 14 in fact, and was confirmed. When I started to get a mind of my own and look around, I realised that many of the people who went to the church in my village were actually really uncharitable, unpleasant and horribly status conscious. They clearly only went to church to be seen to be going there and to want to be seen to be high minded. The hypocrisy was so thick you could have cut it with a knife. Ever since then Ive been very gimlet eyed about spiritual and religious people. Truly good people who perform acts of kindness tend to keep quiet about it and just getvin with it. They dont go on TV and pontificate about doctrine in great detail.

SkirlingGirl · 11/07/2026 10:22

EasternStandard · 11/07/2026 09:50

Someone who posted an attack before the murder investigation was announced is apologising on times radio rn. He says now isn’t the time and his condolences go to her family and loved ones.

I think he’s behaving better than some others who have been putting up awful stuff.

He tweeted again, defending his previous tweet after the news came out that she had been murdered. I guess he's deleted that one too. He's a horrible piece of work.

HoraceCope · 11/07/2026 10:23

she came 2nd in celebrity big brother so she must have come across fairly well.

SidekickSylvia · 11/07/2026 10:25

Poor Ann, she must have been so frightened. By all accounts she was an incredibly kind woman to those who knew her in her personal life.

Abhannmor · 11/07/2026 10:25

PeachOctopus · 11/07/2026 09:52

She was a staunch Catholic, she had views on homosexuality that see it as sinful that are in line with Catholicism. She was also friends with gay men such as Dan Wootton, she was not abusive to gay men on a personal level. Many Muslims including some in my own family also hold these views, I don’t agree with them but they are widely held in staunch religious communities.
She was against the over expansion of Trans rights, as are many others.
She spoke out against Tommy Robinson, she wanted to slow down immigration to Britain as do half the population, it it silly to characterise her as anything more than a Conservative Catholic.

As an old cradle Catholic I'm afraid I do resent people who became Catholic last Tuesday and suddenly started giving the Pope lessons on theology. I'm thinking more of the ghastly JD Vance here tbh. But it seems to be a thing in the UK as well. All these fantasists in their Knights Templar costumes. Sorry to derail....but I paid my dues in Catholic school....

PeachOctopus · 11/07/2026 10:26

TransportNerd · 11/07/2026 09:54

Ah, the "some of my best friends are black" defence.

Being a Catholic (or any kind of other religious person) doesn't give you a free pass to hold offensive and harmful views.

I'm a former Christian who has been forced to address the views I held which were wrong, and it's something that troubles me every day. I've done some things I'm really not proud of.

You seem to have swapped one set of prejudice for another.
You see your journey from Christian values to modern secular values as finding the truth now and demonising people who still hold religious views.

TransportNerd · 11/07/2026 10:26

Daygloboo · 11/07/2026 10:21

I agree. I'm glad you were able to step back from it and see it clearly. I went to church ...Anglican....when I was young, until about 14 in fact, and was confirmed. When I started to get a mind of my own and look around, I realised that many of the people who went to the church in my village were actually really uncharitable, unpleasant and horribly status conscious. They clearly only went to church to be seen to be going there and to want to be seen to be high minded. The hypocrisy was so thick you could have cut it with a knife. Ever since then Ive been very gimlet eyed about spiritual and religious people. Truly good people who perform acts of kindness tend to keep quiet about it and just getvin with it. They dont go on TV and pontificate about doctrine in great detail.

Yes, exactly. I can't help feel that people like Widdecombe and Rees-Mogg have used faith to put a respectable veneer on views that are extremely nasty and reactionary, and have climbed to positions of power by making all the right connections through the church and establishment.

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