I had an early miscarriage back in the day many years ago. Despite being a very early loss I named the baby in my head and told nobody. Not even the father. Not a single soul. I grieved alone as it wasn’t something you talked about then. You just got on with it.
Fast forward multiple decades and a medium told me there was a woman who looked like me on the other side saying hello and suggested that my mum must have lost my sister and this was her.
I told the medium that no my mum didnt lose any babies as she and I were close and she’d have told me. So I have no idea who that is. Sceptically (as I was thinking of leaving this charlatan), I asked for a name of this mystery woman.
She said the name. Just one name. No faffing about. No giving initials. Nope straight to the one name.
I didn’t recognise the name. Told her that. No aunts of that name either.
But then wait….It was the name of my deceased child. The child I hadn’t thought about in many many years. Someone who would potentially look exactly like me.
What's the chances of that? To calculate the odds, you’d have to think of all the names in the English language, to one. That’s a lot.
I am not misremembering. I was not thinking about that name prior. I was not expecting to hear from my dead baby who died over 30 years prior. Nobody could have read my mind. Even the medium got the relationship a bit wrong. Nobody knew the name. Not one single person.
And another weird thing happened. I told my mum this story only in the last few years. And she froze and told me that my dad had a baby sister who died in childhood.
It was never talked about. She doesn’t even know where the grave is.
Guess the name.
Yup. Same name as my dead child.
And this baby died on my exact birthday (different year obv before I was born). Bizarre.
So I named my miscarried baby the same name as a dead aunt i never knew who died on my birthday 30 years or something before I was born.
spooky or what. Tell me you've not got chills lol.
( I must look up the years and see if it’s the same years gap)
the name isn’t a family name btw. Unlike some other names that pop up each generation. It’s a one off. Well I thought it was…….