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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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BlackeyedSusan · 16/05/2015 16:13

pray for sunshine to dry the washing, (otherwise they will have no dry bedding) for energy for me to hoover and effective medicine and no reinfection... which quite frankly will be a miracle given the state of the flat

Anjelica27 · 16/05/2015 18:41

Hello, please can I ask for your prayers for ds who continues to self harm and is slipping further away everyday. I pray for strength to do and say the right thing to support him, especially now as he has a first appointment (another first appointment, new doctor) next week at the hospital so especially praying that he will attend and that he is open to their help. Thank you all x

Dutchoma · 16/05/2015 18:49

When you didn't post for a while Anjelica I hoped things had calmed down a bit; very sorry to hear they have not. I am praying with you that your son will act in his own best interests and accept that he needs help.

DizzyDaffodil · 16/05/2015 20:39

So sorry to hear that Anjelica, I'll be praying for you and him.

Anjelica27 · 16/05/2015 20:46

Thank you for your prayers. We only have each other - my family have been very judgemental and think he could stop if he wants to, so they stay away. It is very hard and lonely. I hope you appreciate what a comfort it is to know that you are thinking of us kindly and remembering us in your prayers. Thank you x

DizzyDaffodil · 16/05/2015 21:21

It's nowhere near as simple as wanting to stop, but then you know that. I know if I'd stopped before I could then it'd have been taking away the only thing that stopped it hurting, but I was in a different situation as I was doing it without a supportive mother.

Anjelica27 · 16/05/2015 21:40

I'm so sorry Dizzy. I hope u are ok now.

I would do anything to help ds and he knows that but I can't do it for him. It took some very wise words from Oma a while ago to help me step back, look at things from a different perspective and realise I couldn't 'fix' him, he has to do it. Ds says he does it to make the pain go away but he doesn't know what is hurting. I wish I could help him more but I know I can't. All I can do is be here, love him and pray.

Dutchoma · 16/05/2015 21:57

It must be so heartbreaking for you to see him suffer and that by his own hand. And yet, I stand by what I said earlier, that you can't take the problem away from him, hard as that is. I do pray that this will dawn on him, that he will wake up one day and see that it is up to him to 'fix' him. I pray that will be soon.

Anjelica27 · 16/05/2015 22:02

Praying is very hard, I don't understand how this can be happening.

I'm very cross with God at the moment. I'm sorry if that is a bad thing to say but I don't understand what the purpose of all this is. If it was me it would make more sense because I've messed up sometimes - no more than anyone else I don't think - I've always tried to be a good person - ds doesn't deserve so much pain.

I'm rambling a bit, I'm sorry, no one deserves to have bad things happen to them I know that but I've dealt with this on my own for months now and I'm sad and tired.

Self indulgent rant over - deep breaths and onward x

Tuo · 16/05/2015 22:15

Oh, Anjelica... praying for you and for your DS. I pray, specifically, that this appointment with the new doctor goes well and that he feels that (s)he is someone he can trust. May it be a first step towards his getting better, and may he come to recognise that he needs help, because his own way of coping is just not sustainable. Meanwhile, may you know peace of mind - it must be exhausting for you.

LifeOfBriony thank you for delurking with an update. I pray for continued improvement in the situation between you and your DH. I also pray for your DS as he approaches his exams, and for all those of us whose DC have exams in the coming weeks. I don't think you should worry about not feeling able to express your prayers in church without crying... sometimes tears are helpful, sometimes the tears are themselves prayers, and anyway God knows what is in your heart, even if you don't manage to collect your thoughts into a neatly packaged format, as it were...

And Dizzy, I hope that you are OK, too. Keeping you in my prayers.

From the Northumbria compline for Saturday:

May God shield us;
may God fill us;
may God keep us;
may God watch me;
may God bring us this night
to the nearness of His love. Amen

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BlackeyedSusan · 16/05/2015 22:20

being cross with god is fine, he can take it. just like ds shout at me sometimes because heis hurting or cross as I am a meanie.

well the children are asleep in the living room. I managed to tidy up and hoover enough of the floor and sofa to sleep in. there are lots of toys upstairs draining and hopefully drying in the bath. blankets and quilts have been washed and dried in enough sunshine. the fourth or is it fifth load of washing is in the machine. this has been done around feeding the children and looking after them. it is times like this that i wish there were another competent adult on hand to help. there is still an awfully long way to go.

DizzyDaffodil · 17/05/2015 01:31

Anjelica it's fine to feel that way, be kind to yourself as it's tough for you too.
God can cope with you being angry with him, I've done it myself so many times.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/05/2015 09:56

offs. ds is busy mixing up hoovered and no hoovered stuff, is cross he can not go in his room. until it is hoovered and I have come down with a really bad sore throat/sinus infection. the plan for the day will be decided when the ibuprofen kicks in.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/05/2015 11:11

we have opted for no church. and lots of hoovering (or should that be mieleing?) and washing. I would only be sitting there with a miserable face as I have a sore throat... I am certainly sitting here looking a bit grumpy.

Legallyblonde77 · 17/05/2015 17:21

Thought I'd pop on and say hello as a newbie. Not a Mum yet but in midst of adoption process. Was on a Christian infertility forum but most of my google searches these days land me on mumsnet for advice!

Can a newbie be so cheeky as to ask for prayer already ? We nearly had a match with children this week but SW went with another family. We're at total peace with it but nearly having children has made me impatient!

Happy Sunday otherwise x

Dutchoma · 17/05/2015 18:38

You are more than welcome, LegallyBlonde. You don't have to be a mum at all to come on our thread and I will gladly pray for you that you will soon have the opportunity to provide a loving forever home for a child or children.

PositiveAttitude · 17/05/2015 20:28

Welcome Legallyblonde and prayers for a match soon for you. (adopter here myself Smile )

I have prayed as i have caught up with the thread today, but please forgive my lack of personals...

Prayers really needed here. I am totally exhausted and at the end of my tether. Mum is home. Dad is being very difficult and sometimes just darn right rude!!! I am run ragged trying to do everything he expects me to and also keeping on top of work and keeping the house and family here running smoothly. I just cant keep doing it all.
Then to top it all today DD2 arrived back in the UK after a 2 week holiday in the Philippians. Phone call from here as her flight landed......."mum, I am in the Uk and need to go straight to A & E" She was bitten by a dog on Friday and also had the dogs blood splattered all over her face and some in her mouth. Her throat has swollen up and she cant swallow anything. She is being kept in hospital and treated with anti rabies vaccine as a precaution.......just another relaxing Sunday, really! Grin

LifeOfBriony · 17/05/2015 21:06

Thank you Tuo for your reassuring words. Not sure how things are really going with H but need to keep things on an even keel until after DS's exams. DD also has an important meeting this week, so thinking of her.

Got on better with prayers this morning by naming those I wished to pray for without going in to detail. Angelica, I prayed for you and your DS, and for others on here. Positive, that's awful, praying for you and your DD.

Dutchoma · 17/05/2015 21:09

Oh my goodness, PA, that is pretty awful, prayers aplenty for dd2.
End of thether is not good, there will have to come a point when you decide that you cannot cope with the problems your dad makes for himself. He has it tough, I realise that, but there are options to make it easier for him. If he refuses those options then it is only right that he takes the consequences of those choices. You always knew it was going to be near impossible to care for your mother at home, the way your dad felt about having carers in. But you will only make yourseslf ill if you do not take a step back, especially now that dd is in hospital. There are limits. Prayers for you as well. And a Star

BlackeyedSusan · 17/05/2015 22:47

prayers PA.

pithing boy. a couple of hours hoovering the sofa bed and the disaster area behind.. and the pithing boy has pithed all over it. ah well he is only allowed one orange per week so no extra pith to clean up.

shame he does the same with those stringy bits inside a banana of which he has two per day. grr. don'cha jus' love sensory issues!

we are working on these habits. there are worse ones to sort first.

I have hoovered and washed all day. airers are groaning under the weight, as am I and the great decontamination goes on.

ZipadiSoozi · 17/05/2015 23:11

Gosh PA sounds like you need a break! Prayers for you regarding your parents, I can understand what you are going through we have it with my mum caring for my dad, she is so stubborn not accepting outside help relying on us, I don't mind but it's hard 24/7, prayers for your dd sounds scary hope she gets better soon! Flowers x

Tuo · 17/05/2015 23:20

You are very welcome LegallyBlonde and I'm praying for you as you face the exciting prospect of adoption. I'm sorry it didn't work out this time, but I pray that your forever child or children may be just around the corner.

Crikey, PA, that sounds terrifying about your DD2. Praying for her, and hoping she's feeling much better soon. Where is she in hospital? Does she have someone near enough to visit and keep her cheerful? Also praying for you, and your mum and dad. It sounds like such a difficult situation and I do think that Oma's 'tough love' approach is right. You must not make yourself ill by trying to sort everyone else's lives out for them...

Briony - continuing to pray for your situation, and also for your DS and DD.

BES - praying for the great clear-up to go smoothly and for the pith to - ahem - pith off...! Wink

A prayer for today:

Almighty God,
you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ
with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven.
Mercifully give us faith to know
that, as he promised,
he abides with us on earth to the end of time;
who is alive and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,
one God, now and for ever. Amen

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Tuo · 17/05/2015 23:21

Oh, I forgot to add Anjelica (sorry!)... I have been thinking of you and of your DS so much today.

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Anjelica27 · 17/05/2015 23:53

Thank you all so much for your prayers. I know I'm repeating myself saying how grateful I am. Everyone's lives seem so complicated and you still find time to think of my ds.

He seems further and further away every day, he is refusing to speak at all to me now and I am praying that he will go to his appointment next week and be open to what they have to say.

I seem to be the only one to think that he is still in there somewhere and just needs to reach out for some help. Family disagree and think he's a lost cause so they stay away but I know they're wrong. He might come out of this eventually a different person but I have to keep believing that he will be well again.

Like I keep saying, I'm praying for strength and guidance and his recovery and I'll remember you all in my prayers tonight with gratitude. x

BlackeyedSusan · 18/05/2015 07:21

ever so poorly. was cold all night now too hot and sore throat, temperature, sinnusy. all I want to do is go to sleep but got to get the children to school.

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