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To post a list of Vigils

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discobrain · 14/02/2023 15:00

This is a thread on twitter for the current list of vigils for the murdered girl Brianna Ghey, around the country.

Listed here

Rest in power, precious girl.

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Clymene · 14/02/2023 18:11

@Arguelikeagrownup - But there aren't vigils up and down the country for all the other children murdered.

Why aren't there? Why is this child's murder more tragic than all the rest of them?

WaityWTF · 14/02/2023 18:11

To quote the many GC people scrambling to make this not a trans tragedy:

let the police do their job, stop jumping to conclusions about causality, and how dare you turn this into political point scoring

or, oh I’m so sorry, does that only work in one direction?

Arguelikeagrownup · 14/02/2023 18:12

Clymene · 14/02/2023 18:11

@Arguelikeagrownup - But there aren't vigils up and down the country for all the other children murdered.

Why aren't there? Why is this child's murder more tragic than all the rest of them?

If you want a vigil organise one.

Eyerollcentral · 14/02/2023 18:14

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POSSIBLE. It’s also just as POSSIBLE this tragic death is part of the scourge of knife crime across the UK. It’s really wrong that so many people are hanging their hats on this death when clearly the dgaf about young people getting stabbed to death nearly every other day of the week.

Getir · 14/02/2023 18:15

The OP posted a list of vigils. Nothing more. Look at who has derailed the thread.

WaityWTF · 14/02/2023 18:16

Clymene · 14/02/2023 17:58

All the children brutally slain deserve to be remembered.

They were all loved and cherished by their families and friends. Their deaths have all left their communities reeling in shock and horror.

That’s great Clymene. You’re right, and I guess you’ve shared or even initiated vigils for those kids too.

How many times have you seen a vigil sharing thread for a murdered person on mn get hijacked by people saying it’s not ok to share about their vigils because it’s political point scoring?

None.

Exactly none.

Have a think about why you’re so keen to push back against vigils for Brianna Ghey, who is a trans girl, and was murdered.

Coldilox · 14/02/2023 18:18

This thread reeks of “all lives matter”

Newtonsnipple · 14/02/2023 18:18

flashbac · 14/02/2023 17:53

From Twitter:

And the families who grieve their child (a 16 yo boy was killed in Chelmsford on the same day) watching as the journalists, pseudo celebrities and politicians line up to send their condolences,
must wonder why their child was not important enough.

I remember when the TRA's were up in arms about BLM not centering THEM enough.

And their response on Twitter now pointing out the black children stabbed that same week not getting ANY of their attention?

Sort it out on your own. We don't care, if you do, do it yourself.

Funny that it was considered evil to say exactly the same thing to them.

Not so funny that they are attempting to use this poor childs death for their own ideological ends.

NeverTrustAPoliceman · 14/02/2023 18:19

I have never attended a vigil and probably never will. It doesn't mean I don't care.

OriginalUsername2 · 14/02/2023 18:22

discobrain · 14/02/2023 17:16

We are going to remember her, if you don't agree with vigils then fine. Don't come. Those of us who are going will make up for those who don't care.

I never knew her, sad as it is. What is the purpose may I ask?

iklboo · 14/02/2023 18:27

Have a think about why you’re so keen to push back against vigils for Brianna Ghey, who is a trans girl, and was murdered.

It makes no difference to me that Brianna was a trans girl. Unless you're the police and have cracked the case it hasn't been definitively proven what the motive was.

I will not go to 'vigils' for people who I have never known, or with families who I will never know. They've not asked for this as far as I can see. They're grieving for the loss of their daughter. Vigils won't change the outcome and it won't bring Brianna back.

How many times have you seen a vigil sharing thread for a murdered person on mn get hijacked by people saying it’s not ok to share about their vigils because it’s political point scoring? None. Exactly none.

Exactly how many vigil sharing threads have you seen, posted on and followed to know this? It's not exactly a daily occurrence on MN.

picklemewalnuts · 14/02/2023 18:27

"Brianna was bullied for years for being trans. There’s a trail of paper evidence in the public domain on that, with MPs involved."

@WaityWTF if that's true, and that's what this crime is about, then it's appalling and tragic. But Brianna's death is appalling and tragic anyway, as are the deaths of the other youngsters.

We are up in arms, and rightly so, when missing children only get traction if they are white and photogenic. We need to highlight all these young deaths, and the epidemic of violence among our children, not only one.

Yorkshirelass04 · 14/02/2023 18:28

Let's be honest, the media and public are very selective and inconsistent about who they hold big memorials for and grieve for.

It's always been the case. Clearly people feel more sorry for this girl than other teens.

picklemewalnuts · 14/02/2023 18:29

Forgot to say the police and all the reports I've seen have specifically said 'no evidence it's a hate crime, please don't speculate'.

It's awful for the family. I hope the vigils have been organised with their permission.

WaityWTF · 14/02/2023 18:36

Seriously?

You all must have missed the extensive vigil sharing for Sarah Everard then. And George Floyd.

Try advanced search on the word vigil to find more examples.

Those vigils were not “organised with the permission of the family”

Those vigils were politicised.

Those vigils took place whilst investigations were ongoing, in the immediate shocking aftermath of the news of their murders.

discobrain · 14/02/2023 18:38

Getir · 14/02/2023 18:15

The OP posted a list of vigils. Nothing more. Look at who has derailed the thread.

I'm used to it, unfortunately.

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RedToothBrush · 14/02/2023 18:38

ReunitedThorns · 14/02/2023 16:29

I question whether the vigils are there to remember Brianna or whether they are purely political, the hashtags make no reference to her.

It is disappointing to see her life being hijacked.

This

People have already decided what has happened.

That before the police themselves have managed to establish a motive

What does this mean it terms of justice? Wil there be a mob at the trial? Even if the police say they don't believe that hate was a mitigating factor

From what I've been reading locally, it doesn't sound as straightforward as social media wants everyone to believe.

It's depressing and actually I do fear it could even prejudice a trial ( and thus mean justice isn't served).

Any defence will be looking closely at how this progresses and considering whether they can use this to potentially help their client.

discobrain · 14/02/2023 18:38

WaityWTF · 14/02/2023 18:36

Seriously?

You all must have missed the extensive vigil sharing for Sarah Everard then. And George Floyd.

Try advanced search on the word vigil to find more examples.

Those vigils were not “organised with the permission of the family”

Those vigils were politicised.

Those vigils took place whilst investigations were ongoing, in the immediate shocking aftermath of the news of their murders.

This with bells on.

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iklboo · 14/02/2023 18:38

WaityWTF · 14/02/2023 18:36

Seriously?

You all must have missed the extensive vigil sharing for Sarah Everard then. And George Floyd.

Try advanced search on the word vigil to find more examples.

Those vigils were not “organised with the permission of the family”

Those vigils were politicised.

Those vigils took place whilst investigations were ongoing, in the immediate shocking aftermath of the news of their murders.

And my thoughts on those are the same as mine on this.

WaityWTF · 14/02/2023 18:40

People have already decided what has happened. That before the police themselves have managed to establish a motive What does this mean it terms of justice? Wil there be a mob at the trial? Even if the police say they don't believe that hate was a mitigating factor

@RedToothBrush where were you on the various threads speculating about the motives and causes of the very recent murder of the Epsom head teacher? They started the moment news broke. Are you posting with your worries about mobs and justice there?

Eyerollcentral · 14/02/2023 18:40

Those vigils @WaityWTF were for a woman who was killed walking home from work. There was no speculation as to why based on her presentation alone. No said it’s an anti-blonde crime. I’m not, unlike many others, reducing Brianna to her presentation, you are the one who has drawn that comparison rather clumsily. I doubt any of the ghouls crowing on this thread would have paid this tragic death any heed whatsoever if it had just been another girl, like the one killed in almost the same way just last week.

discobrain · 14/02/2023 18:42

Coldilox · 14/02/2023 18:18

This thread reeks of “all lives matter”

Yes it does.

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discobrain · 14/02/2023 18:43

Genuine readers:

The twitter thread is adding new vigils as they pop up, keep an eye out, and thank you.

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WaityWTF · 14/02/2023 18:44

ghouls crowing

Where are you seeing this?

Clue: you aren’t

Fleabigg · 14/02/2023 18:46

JackieDaws · 14/02/2023 15:04

Are there any vigils for Holly Newton?

Not around the UK as there was no political point to be made out of her tragic death. Thankfully some beautiful local ones which are what actually count for her friends and family.

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