Why is that person so adamant that my kids teacher did not say they are too clever? Does that person speak french? Should I scan the school report or what ?
Stop it.
Why would I need to speak French? So now the teacher write that your children "are too clever" in a report, not the conversation you had with her, or was it both?
Glass case said that my son was receiving extra tuition because he wasn't doing well. I had just written that the three year old was going go get extra one on one for the opposite reason, because he's really clever.
So is he 3 or 4? Your child is having extra one on one teaching because they are too clever? Is he actually in school yet or are you talking about pre school or nursery?
OP you are clearly getting yourself very worked up, but you must see the inconsistencies in your posts. If your children don't do anything their told at home, you can't get their attention at all, and they never listen to you, but the teachers can seem to manage it at school then clearly something is going wrong at home. When anyone has suggested that you have either agreed and thanked them for offering advice, or pounced on them and told them that the teachers have said that your parenting is amazing and there is nothing to worry about 
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The only things I said I didn't believe happened were the teacher discussing your child with your friend, which technically it did, but it was nothing personal and just a nice comment, so nothing to worry about, and not worth mentioning at all, the bits where you have said the teacher told you your child is too clever, which I just don't believe, because it would be very unprofessional for a teacher to say that to a parent. She may have said he's very clever, but "too clever" I really doubt, and I queried where you said younwould look into getting a childminder, but previously you said youbhad a childminder. How on earth you expect people to know that you don't have a childminder anymore when you didn't mention it, I don't know.