HELP!!! Should I report this mum!?!?!

[ilovemydaughterx]

So.. I really need the help of other mums please!!

I follow a girl on Instagram who’s from my town who does vlogs and videos her everyday life. She talks to the camera and just lets her followers know what she’s doing, her tidying, cooking and looking after her two children aged 2 and 5.

She seems like a lovely person but the way she speaks to her children and about her children is horrendous. She swears at them, calls them names, says she hates them, they’ll be crying about falling and she’ll just look at them with disgust and tell them to go away, and has said (I quote) “I’ve sent them to bed at 5 because I hate them and I just don’t want to be around them”. Then films herself drinking 2 bottles of wine EVERY night, getting drunk while waiting for her boyfriend to finish work. And threatens not to feed them tea and gives it to them late if they’re naughty.

But what I think is the worst is she was telling the camera about how she’ll be performing oral s*x on her boyfriend that night in a VERY detailed and vulgar way... WHILST HER 5 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WAS SITTING ON HER KNEE WITH HER!?!?!

Being a parent myself this just does not sit right with me at all... am I being ridiculous? Should I report it? Would anyone else report it??? I’m by NO means judging her parenting! But it’s all day, everyday and seeing how she swears at/about them is awful.

Refrain from viewing her instagram account.
Mind your own business, and get on with your own life.

Pisspotical
"Refrain from viewing her instagram account.
Mind your own business, and get on with your own life"

You've not had any safeguarding training, have you?

Idiot.

Of course you should report. Police social services childline nspcc. I hate humans like the one you report in this post. They dont deserve anything

She has reported. Read the thread

You did the right thing in reporting, hopefully there will be others who do the same

Please reach out to someone who can actually help these children. The police response was a joke. Suppose they visited when they hadn’t been fed and witnessed the children crying for food. This needs trained, educated eyes for this kind of abuse. Report to social services/nspcc with as much evidence as possible, these children need help. You are absolutely right to report. So much abuse happens because people don’t reach out - I’m so glad you are one of the ones who will. Please give it another try to a service that can support better.

@MiaowMix you are horrid and yeah you are a troll Iv seen many nasty comments from you on MN.

@ilovemydaughterx
Well done for reaching out for advice if some people even bothered reading your thread properly they wouldn’t have asked you stupid questions.

Go onto the council website and go to worried about a child!! then it will give you a mobile number you can text, Iv done this before and it was very successful.

We need more People in the world like you reporting abuse on these poor children instead of just unfollowing her and pretending it’s not happening like some idiots have suggested.

Sometimes I’m ashamed to be human when we have to put up with grown adults on MN being keyboard warriors/trolls (disgusting)

Hope it’s all gets sorted op

So glad there is people out there like you who genuinely care!! Awful that 2000+ people follow her and nothing has been done sooner. Ignore all the mean comments on this 😴😴😴 those poor little kids :( hopefully something gets done about it soon xxx