HELP!!! Should I report this mum!?!?!

[ilovemydaughterx]

So.. I really need the help of other mums please!!

I follow a girl on Instagram who’s from my town who does vlogs and videos her everyday life. She talks to the camera and just lets her followers know what she’s doing, her tidying, cooking and looking after her two children aged 2 and 5.

She seems like a lovely person but the way she speaks to her children and about her children is horrendous. She swears at them, calls them names, says she hates them, they’ll be crying about falling and she’ll just look at them with disgust and tell them to go away, and has said (I quote) “I’ve sent them to bed at 5 because I hate them and I just don’t want to be around them”. Then films herself drinking 2 bottles of wine EVERY night, getting drunk while waiting for her boyfriend to finish work. And threatens not to feed them tea and gives it to them late if they’re naughty.

But what I think is the worst is she was telling the camera about how she’ll be performing oral s*x on her boyfriend that night in a VERY detailed and vulgar way... WHILST HER 5 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WAS SITTING ON HER KNEE WITH HER!?!?!

Being a parent myself this just does not sit right with me at all... am I being ridiculous? Should I report it? Would anyone else report it??? I’m by NO means judging her parenting! But it’s all day, everyday and seeing how she swears at/about them is awful.

Yes I do want to have a look at her Instagram, I think that’s quite obvious. I’m curious about how her videos compare to the descriptions. Seeing that, I’ll be able to give better advice I think.
Presuming it’s an open account.

Yes I’m sure that’s exactly what her children need- more strangers witnessing them being abused. have a word with yourself.

“Better advice”? your arse. You just want to gawp. There’s no better advice than call social services and pass on all the information.

I'm not convinced anything on Mumsnet is true, but I just answer as though it is and don't worry myself too much after that.

People wanting to see children being mistreated should have a word with themselves.

@MiaowMix

I'm quite confused as to why you think I'd lie about this. Anyone that would lie about it should be prosecuted just the same as she should be.

I'm not giving her name out because I don't think that's the right thing to do. Her children deserve privacy until this is sorted

If you think it’s not true then report it to MN.

I have reported ✔️
I don't think it's true because I don't believe this would be ignored if so. And all of that she's a lovely person bollocks just makes this sound like a made up post.

Troll hunting is also reported. ✔️

If anyone thinks I'm lying about this then get off my post. I wanted to know what other mums think and their advice... something we should support each other about.

Thanks prefect chandler! 😇
@ilovemydaughterx you don't get to tell people who can and can't respond to your post.
If it's true why all the crap about she's a good parent. Why do you even follow this person?

Thanks prefect chandler!

So you can report what you perceive to be breaches of talk guidelines, and that’s fine, you’re just following the rules, but anyone who reports you for breach of talk guidelines is a prefect?

@ChandlerIsTheBestFriend you're right of course😉
I'm just a bit jaded as the last few threads I've even posted on (been on this site for more than ten years) have all been deleted for being trolls. It just feels like so many things on here are made up sensationalist drama.
Let's hope these kids get the help they need anyway and op reports them to social services, Instagram etc

@ilovemydaughterx well done for figuring out that it's not good parenting and that she's not a lovely person. I see what a dilemma this must have been for you. 🤔

@MiaowMix

Scroll down hunny and you'll see me explaining why I said that.. and a lovely ladies response saying she understands why I did xxx

Is it just other mums you want to hear from? Or can anyone give an opinion?

I don't think it's true because I don't believe this would be ignored if so

I love how you think that. You have confidence in the system. Standards for parenting are well low though.

Yes report

Phew!! Thank goodness @hfrdgftcsdg is finally here - after everyone umming and aahing for 5 pages not knowing what to do !!

She seems like a lovely person

Errr, how?

Christ, why the fuck do people put this stuff on Instagram? And who the hell follows it? Mind boggles