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mother left her children sleeping in the car and went shopping....one of them woke up....

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ruddynorah · 10/06/2007 17:53

i work at a huge out of town m&s with an enormous car park. this woman left her small baby and her 3 year old daughter asleep in the car. she locked the doors and left the windows slightly open (it was very very hot) and went into the store to do some food shopping.

while she was shopping, the 3 year old woke up, unlocked the car door, got out and started wandering around the car park. so there she is, bare feet, half asleep, dummy in her mouth, looking for her mummy... when another customer saw her and brought her into the store for us to look after and find her mum.

the 3 year old tells me her baby sister is still asleep in the car. so we did a tannoy for her mum (at that point not sure if she actually was in our store or the asda next door, or the boots...or that the girl had given us the correct name) and the security guard went into the car park to look for this car with the door possibly wide open and a baby asleep in it( or maybe awake by then).

so i'm standing there with this 3 year old feeling slightly shaky at how awful the whole thing is, when the mother turns up with the security guard. she's gone to her car with the shopping to find her 3 year old missing. the security guard found her shouting for her daughter. she's apparently mildly concerned, but not terribly. she sees the look on my face and says... 'i know what you're thinking and it's not like that actually, i only left them for 5 minutes to get a few bits so don't look at me like that, how was i to know she could unlock the car?!' and off they went

i'm not quite sure how i was looking at her, my head was just racing with...what if someone had run this tiny child over, or what if she'd wandered off and no one stopped her...or what if someone reached in and opened the car door and took her... silly, silly woman. doubt she'll do it again.

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VoluptuaGoodshag · 11/06/2007 22:26

Aitch can I just hijack and agree with you re Oxfam prices these days. No more bargain books to be had there. Still it's a good cause I suppose

ViciousSquirrelSpotter · 11/06/2007 22:29

Our local Oxfam is ludicrously overpriced for books.

But it does stock chocolate

handlemecarefully · 11/06/2007 22:30

Oh but it is MerryMarigold - just think of all the risks!

I have tried googling "petrol station explosions" and all I can come up with is discussion about mobile phone use and whether it is a fallacy about the risks of using them around petrol pumps.

Take this as a challenge people (sorry, I have had a couple of glasses of wine) - find some concrete evidence of children who have perished on petrol station forecourts whilst their parent / guardian had 'left' them to pay for fuel...and I will gladly eat my hat

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ViciousSquirrelSpotter · 11/06/2007 22:31

Is the mobile phone thing true?

I always turn mine off and then forget to turn it on again and remember when I'm doing 70.

It's not true in hospitals anymore.

handlemecarefully · 11/06/2007 22:31

How much for a book? I generally find they are priced at circa 50p - 75p ?

handlemecarefully · 11/06/2007 22:32

VSS - no it seems that the research invalidates the mobile phone thing as a risk

ViciousSquirrelSpotter · 11/06/2007 22:33

You are kidding, they are all at least £2.50 in my local one. I paid £4 for a children's book recently. Mind you it was hardback

handlemecarefully · 11/06/2007 22:34

Mind you I am probably thinking of the Cancer Research shop rather than Oxfam

VoluptuaGoodshag · 11/06/2007 22:40

I bought 6 books there last week along with one bar of chocolate (£1.19 for the chocolate) and spent nearly £13!!!! I had actively tried to buy from the 99p shelf but couldn't resist a couple of large tomes one of which was a fiver. Have found kids books to be approx £1.50 even if they have other kids names on the inside cover and scribbles

octo · 11/06/2007 22:41

mine got out of the car once on a forecourt - the whole place ground to a standstill - probably because I freaked out and ran out of the shop but and they thought I was going to do a runner

handlemecarefully · 11/06/2007 22:44

Aha - key point is that you were watching them and was there within seconds!

octo · 11/06/2007 22:48

yeah and the security guard and two members of staff - thought they were going to scramble a helicopter

islandofsodor · 11/06/2007 23:01

Having had a white van reverse into me whilst I was putting petrol in I always leave my two in the car. Drivers just don;t look where they are going.

I would never never leave them whilst going into the supermarket though, especially not in this heat.

MerryMarigold · 11/06/2007 23:02

I know, handlemecarefully, the 'just think of the risks' argument makes me laugh (otherwise I would be unable to have kids)

"Just think of the risks of"...

crossing at a zebra crossing and a car overtaking a bus and running you and your kid over (happened to someone I know). Never cross at zebra crossings near bus stops.

driving on the M25 and some mad lorry driver pulling right into you. Never drive on motorways with kids in the the car.

These are probably all much more likely than a forecourt explosion.

Ah well.

handlemecarefully · 11/06/2007 23:04

Yep, it doesn't bear thinking of. My own personal nightmare is taking the kids on a flight (demonstrably the safest way to travel) - brings me out in a cold sweat every time we board an aircraft

UCM · 11/06/2007 23:04

You should have called the police. I have only read the op. You really should have.

If she was a bad mother, they would have sorted that bit out. In my opinion she was an absolute cunt.

handlemecarefully · 11/06/2007 23:05

But obviously a fundamentally irrational phobia!

octo · 11/06/2007 23:06

White van dove into the back of us while we were stationary - boys in car - written off - have bit of phobia about white vans.

ViciousSquirrelSpotter · 11/06/2007 23:06

I'm not sure air travel is the safest mode of travel actually.

I once read an article that said that the reason the aeroplane industry has got away with that myth, is because they calculate the chance of an accident by mile travelled. Since they travel thousands of miles per annum, far more than the average car, naturally they're going to come out safer.

But if you calculate it per journey taken, air travel starts to look much less safe than driving a car.

That disturbed me quite a bit, I was a frequent flier in those days.

octo · 11/06/2007 23:06

a) drove not dove
b) stationary - is that the right spelling?

Its getting late...!

ViciousSquirrelSpotter · 11/06/2007 23:07

I think most drivers have got a bit of a phobia about white vans haven't they? Not without reason.

JodieG1 · 11/06/2007 23:07

I'm sitting here opened mouthed reading that, totally shocked. Cars get so hot even with a window open and she left a baby and a small child in there to bake??? Stupid imho and they could have been hurt or worse just being left in the car. Lazy and selfish beyond belief imo.

edam · 11/06/2007 23:10

Merry, even avoiding crossings near bus stops doesn't help - I was once very nearly mown down by a driver overtaking a bus that had stopped at a pelican cross (think that's the name, the one with traffic lights).

And the time I was run over, I was actually on the bloody pavement.

ViciousSquirrelSpotter · 11/06/2007 23:11

Blimey edam, if I ever meet you, can we make it somewhere inside please?

lucyellensmum · 11/06/2007 23:12

UCM - the c word!!!!!!!

a little strong maybe, but braindead and selfish springs to mind.