She took my kids away from me ,what a good person!

[papa123]

I have been the prime carer for my kids for years ,but she was jealous because i was too close with them ,so she provoked me ,i shouted to her ,made me arrested ,she left ,took me to court ,invented all sort of allegations,the case continue...

waltermitty I did wonder if all the "i will never married again" was for his ex wife's benefit. If she's reading, I hope she feels relief that she's escaped.

Oh I'm sure when she sees these pathetic attempts at game playing that's what she feels WeeWee

Totally agree Mrs D. Im so proud of her - I wish her health, wealth and great happiness xxx

Actually that's a good point MrsDeVere I'll contact HQ about him.

Some people are sick.

Not directed at OP, just some people...are sick! No personal attacking going on here....

I did think that was ITs motive why else come on here with 'she provoked me' 'invented all sorts of allegations' as you do.

I hope his lovely ex knows I am trying as hard as possible not to swear and be directly vile to IT, and call IT the names they deserve, actually IT doesn't name calling too much effort on the fingers IT needs ignored now!

OP Ex Well done you, Onwards and upwards! If IT has been vile to you have you considered No contact? Works wonders

Sadly there are few men on here who do this, I think they should be banned too, I have said this to MNQH, I guess they cannot for some reason.

I will go to my safe place for a minute....(sweary thread)

I think you are extremely fortunate to be able to see your children at all and I'm not convinced it is in their best interests - not until you have completely changed your thinking and behaviour.

If you want to see them more often, you have a LOT of work to do. You need to get professional help to sort your head out. To deal with your temper and your belief that you have the right to abuse your wife and expose your children to an abusive home life. You need to do all that work, to recognise, honestly and humbly, what you did wrong, and to learn how to make sure you behave like a responsible, respectful human being in future. It's down to you to prove you are a safe person to be around your kids and that you are capable of adding to their lives instead of harming them.

First step would be to stop blaming your victim. Go and see your GP and get yourself on an anger management course, and find out if there are any treatment programmes for perpetrators of domestic violence in your area.

You need to put your kids first and stop blaming everyone else for the horrific damage you have caused.

Op ex wife I support you.

You did the right thing all happiness and joy to you and your kids without this person in your life.

Take care of yourself and stay strong xx

OP, you're looking at this as you making one big mistake that lead to you being arrested and everything that followed from that.

But I would guess that your ex would see that same event as just another example of all the times you have screamed and shouted at her. It wasn't a one-off mistake it was an ongoing pattern of behaviour.

You ask for a second chance but you got that after the first time you lost your temper with her. And what did you do with that second chance? You lost your temper with her again. So she gave you another chance. And you blew it again. And again.

You had your second chance and you threw it away. You are now experiencing the consequences of your choices.

hmm so you were shouting at her whilst supposed to be obeying a restraining order which you broke in order to go abuse her some more? that sounds more like it.

OP's ex - well done for getting away and i would reiterate sgb's post and say contact the police and tell them he is stalking you online also. they'll be able to trace the IP address if needs be.

does anyone know how restraining orders apply to online activity? i wouldn't be massively surprised they hadn't caught up with the realities of the internet but they should include following you around the internet imo. there has to be some way of getting someone to leave you completely the fuck alone short of a shotgun.

I was thinking this last night, this abusive erm.. 123 has surely broken this order, I am rambling on about no contact, his EX is obviously trying that... some people are total prats! Massive understatement

Now my order has ran out, in my case stalking isn't enough, until I have something in place my X can drive past my house repeatedly as it is a public road, and can even take his DC, as he will not fight my request for unsupervised access in court, so one of my DC often runs in crying as he has seen 'the car' and was having nightmares and screaming 'please leave my mummy' Hopefully he will try get access after he tries to get his baby back... My X is only interested in one of his Dc though, he wanted the other aborted... he is sick bastard tbh!!

What I put here yesterday was only a paragraph of the abuse, over 15 years, there is more, OP says he is nothing like my X, most likely because OPs ex seen he light sooner imo!

An option for me would be to me to see my Xs car, chase it, get ran over again, get up again, then call the police.... the system sucks!!

Keep your abuse Diary going OPs EX and print this off. Mines is 5 pages long now, hopefully by the time some action can be taken mine will be a book and I will publish it and be rich... sorry I am dreaming here again!

I think I may have wet myself.....brilliant post!!

keep strong op's ex wife. you have a lot of support here... i hope one day you will be able to use it and benefit from it without worrying about your shithead wanker loser ex bullying and harrassing you. i hope you and your dc's never have to see him again... life will be so much better without that too

op - if you know your ex is on here... and you still post this crap... then you are one horrible person. im quite disgusted. you'll never learn... all you see is "me me me" and you wont change

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