She took my kids away from me ,what a good person!

[papa123]

I have been the prime carer for my kids for years ,but she was jealous because i was too close with them ,so she provoked me ,i shouted to her ,made me arrested ,she left ,took me to court ,invented all sort of allegations,the case continue...

Don't really know what you want to achieve from this thread apart from wallowing in your own self pity and blaming things on others.

I'm not sure that sensible responses or questions will achieve much here...

I was arrested for shouting ,i admit its not apropriate in front of the kids

No one gets arrested for shouting.

Shouting is not a criminal offence. What was the reason you were given for your arrest?

you dont get arrested for no reason!

you also dont get your dc's taken away for no reason!

there is clearly more to this story than what you are saying. what is the point of this thread?

moomee,off course i am against all sort of abuse ,but not with using the kids against the father or the mother

interesting abusive, restraining order, violent.....go and get your issues sorted and stop being so self pitying.

You've already admitted on a previous thread that you're wife left you because you were abusive and controlling, so much so she was able to get a restraining order against you. She only got away from you a few months ago.

The kids will be better off with their mum. I suggest you continue your abusers course, get some therapy, and grow up. Those poor young kids.

so you had a fight, she left, reported you to the police and the case is going to court. In the meantime, the dc live with her and you have supervised contact once a week. I can't judge the ongoing case but how often you can see your dc and under what circumstances might be another issue. Get legal advice on that and depending on the counsel you receive, set the ball in motion. These things take time.

Whether the accusations raised against you were just or unjust, they are obviously being taken seriously. I am not aware of the legalities of this but I should think dc have a right to see both parents. Best find out the legal situation and see whether joint custody is a possibility perhaps, also whether under the circumstances you have a leg to stand on. I really don't know

Right so you were abusive and controlling. I'm guessing you were arrested for intimidating behaviour and harassment.

Agreed- stop wallowing and go sort yourself out.

If you really love your children then you will KNOW that an abusive, threatening parent is the worst thing for them. Obviously the ongoing courtcase will be able to prove whether or not you have managed to overcome your issues.

But this is nothing to do with your ex wife. She left you for good reason, you said so on your previous thread.

Have just read last few posts, under the circumstances it looks as if you will need to show great restraint and be careful how you proceed. I would not let a man anywhere near my dd who wasabusive and violent, never mind if he was the father. Even if your behaviour was not directed at the dc, do you not see that they will have picked up on it and been hurt by it just the same? If you are violent towards their mother, how can this be a healthy environment for little dc?

'made me arrested'

Title of this thread is very apt and truthful, she sounds like a good person!

Get some help and think of your DC, not yourself, you may need more help for that though.

Meh......

youvegot ab external locus if control your posts are all she id this,she did that
you got yourself arrested, you were inappropriate to a sufficient degree you got nicked
you need to take responsibility address your own shortcomings.stop whining about poor you

I read your previous thread and think your ex-wife is well shot of you.

It is very difficult to get a restraining order, especially when children are involved so I suspect there is a lot that you are not telling us.

No one took your children away. It was your actions that resulted in your children being removed from harms way and with someone safe. She was not jealous. She was protecting her children

mrscrimbobash,if she left me for good reason like you said why take the kids and why not allowing them to be with their dad .

don't you see that people would not consider you a stable and safe person to be left in charge of dc?

Are you joking?

You are admittedly and abusive and controlling person, and you are wondering why she didn't leave the children with you?!?!?

If you need that question answered you must have recently undergone a lobotomy.

Because she is saving her Dc from having messed up heads. Are you thick as well as abusive?

That was questions btw not an insult....

you still attack your ex,it's allege did this,did that.she's not the problem
you are the problem.you're external locus of control,lack of responsibility
I imagine she took kids to protect them and herself,from man who blames everyone else but never himself

Because by your own admittance you are abusive, if you think its her fault that you abused her then whats to stop you blaming the kids if you lose your temper with them? You can't control your temper I wouldn't be letting my kids within a mile of you either in her position.

read about you

HTH