She took my kids away from me ,what a good person!

[papa123]

I have been the prime carer for my kids for years ,but she was jealous because i was too close with them ,so she provoked me ,i shouted to her ,made me arrested ,she left ,took me to court ,invented all sort of allegations,the case continue...

it was day time

Who called the police?

What did you say to her?

Perhaps you should have more counselling Papa, shouting is not good when you are having supervised contact, I think, if I had an abusive bone in my body I would be on my best behaviour always., if I were in your shoes, thankfully I am not..

So you still have little bit of temper problem going on there?

Shouting in front of any DC is not good, I won't say many people do not do it, but I remember being a child and my parents shouting, I was terrified!

Why did you shout?

INAmanger ,i see what you mean yes it happen before the shouting and the argument but sorry she has never told me dont do this or please dont shout in front of the kids it was for me as a row that happen sometimes for this and this .i now realise that i was wrong to shout or argue in front of the kids and i am sorry

so you just happened to be shouting at your wife as a policeman walked past and he said oi! you're nicked sir???

it wasnt her who called the police

Yeah, you will be sorry I would imagine, you may have just lost any contact with your DC.

Get more councelling!

so who did call the police and why? there was a chain of events you know. and context. the police don't randomly arrest people they hear shouting.

What did you say to her?

Wonderland ,i dont shout no more i am serious and honest ,the supervised contact is going well and i am happy for that

Who called the police?

Oh good, you have stopped....for a day or 2.

Get more counselling, seriously, you may have just lost contact with your DC forever because you could not control you temper, sorry but imvho you still have a problem.

You shouted? I assumed you used vile language at her to have at least been nicked for breach of the peace, or was it breaking terms of the order?

Glad the supervised contact is going well.
Have you been advised by the authorities what you have to do to get more contact eventually?

You need to move on from what your behaviour was like.
Do you know how to do that?

its enough thanks for your oppigion will do what is best for me and the family ,god forgive all the sins if you really ask for forgiveness

amillionyears ,yes i know what to do .i will follow my dv courses seriously and learn from it on how to behave and controle my self ,i am a good person who did a big mistake but hopefuly things will get better after some time .

Good.

we are not God and no human can remove your sin.

What did you want form us?

Or is your ex a member of mumsnet?

Why can you not answer my question? Do you not like the answers?

All you have posted is to disrespect your ex wife.

None of it is helpful.

See, now you are contradicting yourself!

You said 'she made me arrested'
And now you say 'it was not her who rang the police'

So why blame her for 'making' you arrested??

Another saying is God pays his debts without money... ! Keep going on your DV course and learn as much as you can from how you feel right now.

What allegations did she invent? Do you really think it is because she is jealous of your closeness with your DC? What happened in Court?

You need to be very careful Papa, SW/SS take abuse very serious these days their primary concern is not you or your wife, but your DC

You will never have your exwife back.

You will never have your old family back. You have broke it forever.

You can only be the best person you can be for your children now.

You cant blame your behaviour on someone else. You chose to be abusive to your exfamily. Do you accept this?