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She took my kids away from me ,what a good person!

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papa123 · 23/12/2012 12:12

I have been the prime carer for my kids for years ,but she was jealous because i was too close with them ,so she provoked me ,i shouted to her ,made me arrested ,she left ,took me to court ,invented all sort of allegations,the case continue...

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OliviaPeaceOnMumsnet · 23/12/2012 16:59

Ahem.
Peace and love to all on earth Mumsnet

Whistlingwaves · 23/12/2012 17:10

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WankinginaWinterWonderland · 23/12/2012 19:58

Peace and love always in this house finally Olivia Xmas Grin

Thank you Manger, I forgot I typed that out, tis a bit detailed innit?

I must remember to take my diazepam before my Mumsnet addiction kicks in, diazepam addiction 1st, Mumsnet addiction 2nd... get it right Wanka ...Blush

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papa123 · 23/12/2012 20:01

WankinginaWinterWonderland .I do not resemble your ex at all, i never beaten my wife with a baseball bat or drove her over or any phisycal and still you gave him a chance.all i am asking is a chance to prove my self that i changed and i am sorry for my actions i am a good father no matter what you think ,the shouting and the temper was my problem and i moved on from this i will never do it again

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AnAirOfHopeInAManger · 23/12/2012 20:06

its ok your getting there and doing a great job. Enjoy christmas with your children xx

AnAirOfHopeInAManger · 23/12/2012 20:09

You were not a good father because of your temper.

What do you take responsability for?

Why should you get another chance?

WankinginaWinterWonderland · 23/12/2012 20:09

That's good to hear Papa. I do realise not all abusive men go to the extremes mine did - he is a very nasty dominating, controlling abusive man!

If you ever get a minute to check out the link I put up earlier, there are various forms of abuse, sadly mine had all of these and thought he had no problems.

You clearly see you have some problem(s), please get whatever help you can for any problem(s) you have and look forward to seeing your DC in the future, I do not like the fact my DC cannot see their father, I wish he has was not what he is. Sadly I cannot change people or I would have changed him.

I grieve for for he/we could have had.

He will now miss out on seeing his DC grow up. Which saddens me tbh!

WankinginaWinterWonderland · 23/12/2012 20:11

Sorry, you have said you have moved on, then why were you arrested?

AnAirOfHopeInAManger · 23/12/2012 20:11

How many chances have you already had?

thebittergamesmaker · 23/12/2012 20:14

oh yes you will! Xmas Grin

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papa123 · 23/12/2012 20:14

inamanager?

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AnAirOfHopeInAManger · 23/12/2012 20:18

Your on here why?

You want to talk about it then you need to be open and honest with yourself and us.

Answer the questions.

amillionyears · 23/12/2012 20:18

If you are serious about seeing your children more often, you need to seriously change your life, as I think you are just beginning to realise.
And now that social services are involved, you also need to be seen to be doing that.
So, if they suggest anger management classes, you go regularly.
If they suggest parenting classes, you go.
If they suggest relate, or whatever, you go.

I dont know what sort of things they will suggest, but if you are serious, you have some difficult, mainly emotional things to go through ahead, some of which should involve looking at your behaviour and why you have behaved as you have in the past.

AnAirOfHopeInAManger · 23/12/2012 20:20

Iyo what happened to get you in this situation.

DollyTwat · 23/12/2012 20:20

The worrying thing Is that in your OP you state your wife goaded you, provoked you

You haven't changed at all have you?
Deep down that's what you actually believe

WankinginaWinterWonderland · 23/12/2012 20:24

Sorry Papa why were you arrested ?

I think you may have missed that line of my post.....

Tis like a party here daily! We dance when we want, we eat when we want, I drink when I want, I can do whatever I want, when I want I swear now and everything... I must calm down, tricky when you are used to being controlled, I am in charge now, tis dangerous in a fun way! Shame for my poor neighbours....

MrsDeVere · 23/12/2012 20:24

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papa123 · 23/12/2012 20:25

sorry INAmanger i dont get your question

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WankinginaWinterWonderland · 23/12/2012 20:26

Oh no.... no anger management that's bolloxology!

He needs to control his anger not manage it!. Sorry...I am too knowledgeable on this subject now at times Blush

WankinginaWinterWonderland · 23/12/2012 20:27

Why were you arrested Papa?

WankinginaWinterWonderland · 23/12/2012 20:28

I think she would like to know the same as me...... Why did you have to post? People do not get arrested these days without doing something.

AnAirOfHopeInAManger · 23/12/2012 20:29

Wanking enjoy your freedom Wine

AnAirOfHopeInAManger · 23/12/2012 20:33

What happened the night you got arrested?

What was your marrage like?

What do you want to achieve by posting on mumsnet?

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papa123 · 23/12/2012 20:35

I was arrested because i shouted to her on that day ,this is the truth

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AnAirOfHopeInAManger · 23/12/2012 20:35

How many times before has your ex forgive you for your behaviour?

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