AARRRGG!!!! wat a day, I have just humiliated myself by blubbing in a shop!! I went to return a few items and was accused of wearing them!! I explained I had not and I would never wear something and try to return it, and that all the things i brought i would have brought htem back too. I only brought them on saturday!! the person was so rude, saying ther was marks on skirt ther was a mark on the top and i told her it must have been from the store and if had worn it it would have been all over it, she was soooo rude to me,saying there was a "seat" mark and that they wouldn't sell items in that state, I said there must be something wrong with the store cos there was marks on items in store. I asked her how on earth I could wear the skirt with all the tags on it, the tag is the sort with the tag that goes right the way from the outside and the inside she said some people do it and she doesn't know how they do it. I said i spent over £100 that day and brought alot of things she said no one would buy it cos it was worn I pointed out that the skirt I was going to exchange it with had the same kind of marks she said it was from the floor, I said if I brought this skirt back tomorrow would you say I wore it? she said yes, so I turned it over and showed her the security tag, I told her it hasn't even left the store!!! she had nothing to say about that....she then said there was creases at the waist of the skirt i wanted to return I explained that I tried it on at home cos baby was crying wen i was buying it, the other assistant was like "well there's creases where it folded there" i said "well I've just had a baby!" It went on for nearly 10 minutes and I was sooo angry I told her she starting to offend me now, and that I just wanted to exchange it i explained i always shopped there, she said i konw i always see you she went on and I just started blubbing like an idiot... oh how i cringe now, I wish I was stronger but I try not to shout or swear and treat people with respect and all the frustration has to come out some way..... So there I am blubbing and she's like oh I didn't mean to offend you i'll exchange it i said i'm never coming here again she was all, oh no trying to make up for it i said i work in retail and i would never treat someone like that i would never make them feel like that she tried to make excuses i said just do the exchange and the other assistant tried to make excuses too isaid it's all right just do the refund, I said i dont even want the skirt i was going to exchange it with. The women kept making excuses saying she didn't mean to offend i told her i just want get out of the shop and she's making it worse so just do the refund. My poor ds1 was saying dont cry mummy and was hugging me, oh how my heart nearly broke, i didn't want him to see me like that. I took my card and reciept and left the shop is in a shopping centre and I had to walk through the shopping centre with tears in my eyes, face all red, eyes red..... double humilliating. I went to the toilets in a dept. store and washed my face. I carried on shopping. My lovely ds1 said there's smiley faces for you mummy cos they love you.... aaahhh I smiled and said you made me feel better, he said cos i'm your son and my mummy shouldn't cry!! Oh my boy, so loving... well i am going to write to head office and complain, I will not be going back there, i will buy the skirt i wanted from the internet.
Anyway see you all soon.
PS. Dahlia-- I am an all round performer (acting singing musician etc...)