DD2 6 just told me something that has worried me...

[GruesomeShellChillingTortoise]

She just said that her 13yr old half Brother keeps pulling her trousers and knickers down and looking at her privates and has touched her(haven't asked her how). And when she is led on his bed he puts her knickers over her head so that his face is close to her privates.
I have just quickly spoken to him (because i didn't know what to say) and he said it was true. I have told him he mustn't do hings like that to his sister and that he shouldn't be looking/touching her privates.

Now i am worried and not sure if i should be doing/saying anything else to either DD2 or DS1.

Please help.

Will be thinking of you tomorrow, Tortoise x

Just seen the updates.
Wishing you all the best for tomorrow.

Defo get some answers to your questions. It's very important that you know 100% what is going to happen to all concerned, also about why they didn't phone you back ( unless they thought that contacting XP would be enough maybe)

good luck xx

Just a quick message.
Interview cancelled due to emergancy case . Will be one day next week now. I am very pissed off but have DS1 here for the day as he was already off school.

Oh Tortoise, I'm so sorry they had to cancel on you. How is DS1?

Tortoise what a pain. At least you have DS1 with you for a bit. Thinking of you

that is terrible have you managed to talk to anyone yet?

Has been nice spending the day with DS1. XP will pick him up at 4pm and DS2 at the same time. Think XP has gone to work!! I had a quick phone call this morning to explain that they had to cancel but nothing since then. She did say someone will be in touch!

We have been putting up a new stair gate to stop dogs getting in the kitchen and also put together a new kitchen table. I think DS1 had fun helping me. He is eating lunch at the new table now! DS1 is fine, non stop chatting lol!

Glad you've had a nice day with him .

Glad you had a nice day with him too, but livid on your behalf that they cancelled. Hope you have a lovely weekend. :)

How was your day today Tortoise? :)

Yesterday was OK. Had a bit of a sort out in the kitchen.
Today i feel so so low. Am snappy and just want to curl up in a ball and cry!
I am trying to list some bits on Ebay but not getting far. At this rate i won't have made enough money to sort Christmas presents out!

Hi Tortoise.
I'm sorry you're feeling low today. You have been so strong for your children.
Are you able to take some space to do something nice for yourself?

Sending you my best wishes x

Tortoise sorry to hear your feeling low. Stay strong, I know its easier said than done but you have been amazing.

Thinking of you and your DC

I just hope someone phones tomorrow to let me know what is happening. I can't keep going on like this.

Is there someone you can phone tomorrow, to find out what is going on? Or at least confirm they have the right number for you to call on? You might feel better if you can take some control about what is happening.

Glad you had a nice day with DS1 though, sounds like you both needed that. Good luck for the week ahead.

I can understand that, the not knowing must be terrible.

Sorry I haven't had any experience with any of this but surely you should be able to contact the SS or police yourself and they should be able to give you some answers. You have done whats best for your DC they should be working with you.

I do have SS number and police number, just feel like i am chasing them up all the time. They do have my contact numbers because they have phoned before. Guess it just isn't as important to them as it is to me. Its more a case of just a job to them not their life i suppose!

I would ring. There is no harm in asking what is going on.

Like you say it's their job and they deal with this daily, they know what happens next you don't. Call them its not chasing them up its a concerned parent who wants to try and get her family through this.

I would call too, and insist on knowing a time-frame.

Thinking of you. :)

I would ring too.

Hope things are resolved soon x

tortoise, give them a call and insist on a time scale and a call to review what is to happen. you need to know when ds1 can come home. and for you. x

Well, i still have no idea.
I did have a phone call from the police today. He asked when i was free this week then said he would phone xp on his mob and see when he is free. He phoned me back and said could i do 5pm Weds. I said not really because it could take a couple of hours and i have no-one who can have the other 3 DC. He said he would speak to xp again and let me know. Have heard nothing from him since then.

I then spoke to xp earlier and he hasn't spoken to anyone today. It was his Mum who took the call as he phoned xps home number!

This is getting ridiculous!

Oh, how bloody frustrating.

Would it be worth contacting XP yourself and coming up with a,list of possible times? Then present to the police and let them decide from that. Not your job, but they sound pretty useless.

How is everyone feeling? Did you have a nice weekend?

you need to call or turn up at ss offices tomorrow and get some answers.

is thier no one to look after dds on wednesday?