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help me with my housing situation please!!!!!!!!

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sparklymieow · 02/06/2005 14:47

Some of you will have read my threads on my neighbours but we are pushing to get moved, having the housing manager coming out tomorrow and I want to get out of here. My SIL is in Bolton and I have expressed an inerested in 2 houses up there. Homeless won't help because the police can't give me a letter, council want to me to start the eviction process (ie complain and get them to sort it out or face eviction) but I can't do that as I know it will make things worse. Now I need some help to get us moved, I have 2 disabled kids and they can't live like this, and I have to go out a lot for appointments etc and its so scary going out. Please help me.

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spacecadet · 03/06/2005 17:35

but it's hardly any surprise after everything you're going through.

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:37

i think that the council can't see what is happening, I managed to stop myself from crying a few times.... the concillor is coming round tomorrow, she had me crying down the phone to her, i can't see myself holding it together for her tomoorrow

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assumedname · 03/06/2005 17:37

Isn't it on here about your neighbour threatening your dh and holding him against the wall etc? Surely that's some proof you haven't changed your story.

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:38

i just wish that none of this was happening, i want to feel strong again, i am normally strong....

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:39

yes there is but I can't find it, and one of my threads has been deleted by mistake....

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:40

i have smoked so many fags this last month, hate myself for that too.....

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assumedname · 03/06/2005 17:40

Has it been completely deleted or can tech reconstruct it? There is stuff to do this.

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:41

my house is a pit, need to tidy up, no engery.

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spacecadet · 03/06/2005 17:41

sparkly....as soon as you get the cam on tues make sure you start recording e verything, that way no one can accuse you of lying when you have proof.

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:42

not sure tbh, can they?? asked them to delete a link but the whole thread has gone

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misdee · 03/06/2005 17:43

dont hold it together when coiunciller comes round. they need to see how much this is affecting you andf dh.

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:43

but they are saying we lied about the first incident, that nothing happened and now we are saying that someone held DH p against the wall and threatened him, jst to help us get moved.

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assumedname · 03/06/2005 17:44

On your 'can't take much more' thread there's a bit about dh being pushed against the shoe cupboard. Is that it?

spacecadet · 03/06/2005 17:44

got to go now cos dd wants the computer, but please dont do anything silly, i will check in later to see you are ok.{{{hugs}}}

assumedname · 03/06/2005 17:44

What about your mum - she's a witness to some of it.

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:45

yes thats it.. whats the date on it

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assumedname · 03/06/2005 17:53

Phew, took me a while to find it.

Wednesday, 18 May. 3.15 pm, I think.

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 17:57

thats a week after the incident, the police will still say it didn't happen...... the police have fucked up and aren't willing t admit it. I am so drained.... can't even think about getting the kids up on monday for school, too scary to pick them up.

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 18:00

its my dd1 birthday in 0 days, supposed to be sorting that out and she won't be having a party, i have her presents, a wooden palace, a ballet studio and a new dress, purple trainers and a headband....

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 18:00

10 days

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misdee · 03/06/2005 18:08

whi no party?

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 18:10

becuase I can't have lots of 5 year olds here atm, because they might shout abuse at them, also the weather is very odd atm

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misdee · 03/06/2005 18:10

do u think they are going to start when the palce will be full of adults?

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sparklymieow · 03/06/2005 18:12

guess not, but would have to clear the garden and I can't face it......

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assumedname · 03/06/2005 18:12

You've got a small archived thread under other subjects - neighbour problems.

Dated 9 May you say about your mum and neighbour's weights and then later there's a brief mention of dh being threatened.

HTH.