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The Yurt of Yurtiness - lots of hugs and maybe not quite so much veg...

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TooTicky · 04/02/2009 15:26

C'mon then, dive in!!

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AtillaTheHoney · 05/02/2009 20:59

FairLady, I am begining to realise that it is not all so cut and dried. I was pretty naive and would have probably frowned if I had considered being in this situation.

'Oh it couldn't happen to me.... '

I suppose all it needs in a relationship is for there to be the slightest degree of change, and suddenly you are going in the opposite direction.

And life over the last two years has changed me so much.

I have no idea what my future holds one way or another, whereas once I was dead certain.

Given the choice would you have this person in your life in any way, or think you should cut them out altogether?

TooTicky · 05/02/2009 21:09

Take a few deep breaths Fairlady. Hope you sleep well tonight.

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FairLadyRantALot · 05/02/2009 22:21

Attila...oh, I really don't know...we hadn't "talked" in such a long while, and it was nice to catch up...but...oh, I just don't fucking know, tbh...iykwim.

And right now I am even more freaked out, because I just watched ER and a previous character has come back in and he is very much a similar type as this guy, and the bloody storyline...well...it is kinda the was in the past and could have would have kinda thing...that is just freaky, isn't it....

BUt, realistically, I know that where I am I am for a reason and I am happy and stuff...it really isn't about that...I suppose...it just made me ponder and wonder and stuff...

Well, I am going on about it, aren't I...lol...I'll snap out of it again....

FairLadyRantALot · 05/02/2009 22:22

sorry am all me/me/me...

TooTicky · 05/02/2009 23:07

It's okay fairlady ponder away
Been there

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AtillaTheHoney · 06/02/2009 08:15

FairLady...would you prefer resolution, or do you mind something hanging in the air?

I have a couple of hours work this morning and if the children go to school, will be a 'lady that lunches' in town .

And I feel 'OK'. which for me is good,

pinkspottywellies · 06/02/2009 11:56

Morning!!!!!!!!! Just marking thread but haven't had time to read.

littlerach · 06/02/2009 12:04

Hey, Pink, no baby yet?

Girls are almost playing nicely/not fighting.

pinkspottywellies · 06/02/2009 12:17

Heck no LR! I've got aaaaages to go

IdrisTheDragon · 06/02/2009 12:18

Can I come here? Due to lack of veg consumption. But like hugs

MamaG · 06/02/2009 12:19

Pink, just wanted to see if you were feeling any better? 10/10 move too fast for me so I spotted you and dived in (ha, spotted, geddit?)

MamaG · 06/02/2009 12:19
pinkspottywellies · 06/02/2009 12:29

Thanks MamaG! Getting there but just really needing to nap at the moment. Am getting friends to have dd about twice a week. They're being complete stars! Had a bad night though so I was a weepy grumpy old bag this morning! DD woke up just as I was going to bed at half 10 so got to bed nearer midnight, then I woke at about 2 and dd woke up again at about 5

IdrisTheDragon · 06/02/2009 12:36
MamaG · 06/02/2009 12:40

I'm glad you're getting some rest pink, albeit not as much as you'd like to be! Nice ot hear your friends are rallying round as well.

pinkspottywellies · 06/02/2009 12:41
MamaG · 06/02/2009 12:51

Gerrof!

OsmosisBanana · 06/02/2009 14:06

I am decidedly underwhelmed by this snow bizniz.

The roads are fine. I drove DD to nursery (it took 4 hours due to people braking at the sight of every snow flake) and the fuckwads were shut!

They didn't leave a message on their answerphone!

I am seething. My last day of holidays I had planned to actually do something for myself that does not involve sanding / varnish / skin corroding cleaning products. Like have a bath. Or eat. But this will not be happening as DH has left me a list of jobs and taken SD sledding. No doubt he will want me to feed them later but I am going to Make A Stand.

I have 3 chapters of cellular biology stuff to read too by Monday, when am I going to do that (and stand a chance of understanding it) with a 2 year old?

FairLadyRantALot · 06/02/2009 14:51

Hi,
was in work this morning (in teh local clinic, as I would not drive, which was good, because I would have been stuck there), but clinic closed early...
might have my "Boss" (head of department" sleeping over, as she might be stuck
here...so, been on a cleaning frenzy.
Oh, bloody Primary school took ages to announce that they would be closed....which pissed me right off, because I was hanging about, wondering what to dress teh Kids in, and if they needed lunchboxes...so, in the end put them in schoolclothes and packed their lunches, and THAN they announced they would be closed...bastards!

As for my confuddling...still confuddled....but don't really want to break up contact with the guy...it will never lead to anything...but well, we can have fun chatting...but I might regrett that, of course..but will see what happens, really! I might find ot stuff that makes me happy that we never got anywhere, lol...!

OB, that is annoying...grrr...on your behalf...

Huhu to all that dared to enter the yurt...you realise this yurt is in teh nutpit and it's impossible difficult to leave, right! Don't say I didn't warn ya

and just a general hui, because I read messages and I must rush off, and anyway....

FairLadyRantALot · 06/02/2009 14:51

Hi,
was in work this morning (in teh local clinic, as I would not drive, which was good, because I would have been stuck there), but clinic closed early...
might have my "Boss" (head of department" sleeping over, as she might be stuck
here...so, been on a cleaning frenzy.
Oh, bloody Primary school took ages to announce that they would be closed....which pissed me right off, because I was hanging about, wondering what to dress teh Kids in, and if they needed lunchboxes...so, in the end put them in schoolclothes and packed their lunches, and THAN they announced they would be closed...bastards!

As for my confuddling...still confuddled....but don't really want to break up contact with the guy...it will never lead to anything...but well, we can have fun chatting...but I might regrett that, of course..but will see what happens, really! I might find ot stuff that makes me happy that we never got anywhere, lol...!

OB, that is annoying...grrr...on your behalf...

Huhu to all that dared to enter the yurt...you realise this yurt is in teh nutpit and it's impossible difficult to leave, right! Don't say I didn't warn ya

and just a general hui, because I read messages and I must rush off, and anyway....

TooTicky · 06/02/2009 16:04

Oh that is annoying Fairlady. Dd1's school are pretty useless at lettinmg people know what is happening.
Village school otoh, the head went over at 5.30, 6.30 and 7.30 to assess situation.

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TooTicky · 06/02/2009 16:52

OB, that is really crap.

Hello Idris!

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TooTicky · 06/02/2009 16:53

Pink, how are you?

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FairLadyRantALot · 06/02/2009 17:03

anyways...are you all out playing in the snow...tis so very quiet....

Well, my house is lots cleaner and tideir than it was in a while, but think my possible guest was able to get home....well..never mind..tis nice to have tidy/cleanish surroundings (for a change)...

FairLadyRantALot · 06/02/2009 23:06

sorry am going on here...
but, and be honest...but is fantasizing about other people then you partner wrong/a crime/nasty/ pathetic....add what ever...

It's actually not about earlier points really, more generally...

am ready to sit on that naughty step in the nutpit forever for being wrong and horrible forever....

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