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francagoestohollywood · 18/03/2008 13:17

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francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 21:31

Who knows . I miss Exeter. But I was really miserable, you know? I feel this has been my greatest loss, not having been able to adapt to a different place. And feeling lonely despite having met (it took some time, but I did meet) truly fantastic friends. did i tell you I'm seeing a psicoterapista????

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hotHELL · 15/04/2008 21:34

thankyou bran.
it is true i have never met a berlusca voter, and i know plenty of buzzurri e tonti...
i did meet a sarkozy voter at a party just before the french elections, and that was revolting enough...

francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 21:35

lol at ex communist monolith, you might end up in the spa with bertinotti and diliberto . ah, you made me laugh B, thank goodness, I was feeling really down tonight.
No, my friends are more or less (some more than other) out of fashion lefties. we are losers. sfigati.

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francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 21:36

Believe me hh at the moment even Sarkozy seems like a much much better option.

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hotHELL · 15/04/2008 21:37

uuuu, do you do weekly sessions? i think it is bloody painful to be honest, have stopped as was only entitled to a certain amount of sessions through nhs, and my counsellor wasnt very good, but will start again properly with a proper psicoanalista after baby comes, counldnt face the opening up stuff at the moment. it was useful in that it made me realise i need long term therapy.

hotHELL · 15/04/2008 21:39

oh yes, sarkozy seems like a gem compared to berlusca, has lovely taste in women anyway..

francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 21:39

I'm going once a week. I'm not in the painful stage yet. If anything I'm a bit .

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Brangelina · 15/04/2008 21:46

How did you find yourself a psicoterapista? Did you have a recommendation/get referred by someone?

Yes, Sarkozy is a tad better than Berlusca, but then most people are, with the exception of perhaps Mugabe and that Chinese guy at the moment. Oh, and Bush. In fact Berlusca and Bush get on so well because they are both kings of the gaffe.

hotHELL · 15/04/2008 21:49

ohhh, the angry stage, didn't have that. with the nhs one it wasnt' painful becasue i manage to deceive her and myself by talking about stuff that wasn't important, and she wasn't good enough to make me move towards the real issues, after bthat had 3 meeting preliminari with a bloody expensiver therapist, and she was great from the first session she managed to make everything come out, with just one word she managed to carve me open and pour all this stuff didn['t want to know it was there. Anyway will see her again after the baby, as i don't want to have a pregnancy con una depressione,haha.

francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 21:50

lol lol lol. I thought prince philip was king of the gaffe.

Obviously - we are in Italy after all - she was recommended by a friend of my brother, who is (the friend not db) a psicologa too. I really like her.

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francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 21:52

Yes, I can see that hh . I'd have found it weird to speak in English during a session, I'd have spent most of my time apologizing for my bad english

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hotHELL · 15/04/2008 21:52

i fancy sarkozy a LOTTTT, not sure why, never been out with somebody remotely like him. must be the size of the nose. don;t tell anyone, it is a bit embarassing, fancying a right winger.
i think mugabe and berlusca are similar.

francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 21:54

hhell!! this beats my crush on travaglio! at least he has icy blue eyes...

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francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 21:54

and now I suddenly remember that you also fancy kevin mc cloud !

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Brangelina · 15/04/2008 21:56

No, Prince Philip ha perso colpi. It's quite amusing that English papers report all sorts fo gaffes that never make it into Italian papers. Could it be because they're all Mr B's or friends of his?.

Is it really scary going to a psicologo then? Do you get asked lots of probing questions? What kind of things do they ask? Do you ahve to get worse before getting better?

hotHELL · 15/04/2008 21:56

ahhh, have gone off kevin, now that i am pregnant sarkozy is my ideal shag, of course i blame the hormones, and that wonderful big big nose.

Brangelina · 15/04/2008 22:00

Who is Kevin Mcloud?

hotHELL · 15/04/2008 22:00

a friend who is psicoanalista, says that yes you get worse and worse, spend months and months vivendo in una tomba (e'italiano questo amico) and then you begin to feel better. Was asked to talk about why i was there and then they pick on things that you say. With the good one, i don't know why i said that i was so pleased that she lived reasonably close to me, and not near Heathrow, and she picked on the word Heathrow, rightly bloody so, i started to cry as i have huge issues with moving country, fear of change, have had panick attacks on planes, and i found it incredible that she found the right meaning in something i said en passant.

hotHELL · 15/04/2008 22:01

Bran kevin mccloud is the sex god of building wonderful houses. not sure why i fancied him at the time. boh!

francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 22:02

lol lol lol hh!!!!!! of course it's the big nose. you know what they say about noses.
It;s a shame. I haven't had a crash on anyone for ages. Is this middle age do you think?
Brange, I don't have a clue, I've only done 4 session. no, firstly they ask you what is the matter with you . I've been thinking that I'm a bit angry after the last session, not at her, but at things in my life, but I'm still very much confused. Do you want to do some therapy?

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francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 22:02

kevin's nose wasn't exactly small either.

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Brangelina · 15/04/2008 22:05

still no wiser as to who KM is....

I do wonder if I'd like to do some therapy. I probably need it but am not sure about unbuttoning to this strange person. also, what if he/she is really crap like HH's NHS one and doesn't solve any problems? Are they supposed to solve problems of just make you more self aware? Do you have expectations from yours?

Brangelina · 15/04/2008 22:06

Ah big noses. I once went out with someone who had a long pointy nose. Oddly enough everything else was a bit pointy too (like a dog's iyswim) and I didn't like it at all

francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 22:07

you know what? I don't know. I just would like to be less unsatisfied, wchi makes me angry.

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francagoestohollywood · 15/04/2008 22:07

bleurgh!

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