Rosa I understand were youre coming from as I lived in Italy for 12yrs, Gaeta, beautiful place, but couldnt hack the mentality anymore, its a very beautiful fishong village near Formia, Latina. I used to run my dance school there, (Gaeta) then we dedided to offer our kids, the city life in london, and it was the right move. My husband is italian as I mentioned. I love Italy and its family values sopratutto! but I couldnt live there again.