Lots of you know some a bit my crap story. Anyway after my DP died, her Mother and I agreed that we would not bring up the subject of their Mother to the children but if they mention her we would answer their questions as and when. Today the witch was here and after she left my DS age 5 was cryng and I initially thought it was because he was over tired, I then realised that he was really upset and he explained it was becuase mil had been talking about his Mummy and showing them pictures. I would never try to block their wonderful Mother's memory from them but my theory is why discuss and dwell on something that upsets them, why not wait for them to mention it when it suits them. I know this is a matter of opinion and all children would react differently to the whole scenario. But my kids are doing well all things considered.
I am annoyed at the witch for going against what we had agreed in order to make her feel better.
I have suggested that she comes every two weeks instead of every week and she is saying that I am blocking her out of their lifes. Which I do not want to do.
If push comes to shove how often is a Grandmother entitled to see Grandchildren?
Am I being unreasonable?