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Quod I'll meet you at J19 of the M4 and we can take the Gruffalo to see Mr Bebe!!!

Right, I'm gonna do it! I have to do it don't I? For my own sanity! At least I can run and hide at my mums if talks break down!

DD spent the morning at toddlers taking one of the littlest ones toys to play with. Was super cute, she would be such a great big sister!

Nannyl - have a great weekend away.

Quod - Well done on finishing work project. Good Luck with the next one even if it's a stress it must be so satisfying when you finish them?! :)

SWI - just been having a nose on fb at your India photos. What an amazing and beautiful place. So , it looks just stunning. Some fab photos too, very National Geographic worthy!! :o

WW - thank you :)

Bebe I agree with everyone who says you have to have it out with him, even if it's just to set some ground rules as to how to be more sensitive towards your feelings re the situation. Be prepared to decamp to your mum's if necessary.

Right...deep breath...gonna just do it, quickly...like ripping off a plaster!!

Go bebe

Go Bebe Go!
We're all behind you and are very proud of you for deciding to stand up for yourself on this one. WW is so right about him vowing to stand by you.

FX that you won't need ot decamp to your mums but if you do then I am sure she'll be brilliant and look after you. Bless mini bebe for being so cute - she's such a sweetie (also been nosey on FB!!!)

Nannyl - have a lovely weekend. Please come and report back on Glamping too as I am quite keent o give it a go but have no idea what it will be like!

HURRAH FOR BEBE! GO BEBE GO!

Agree with all the others saying he's got an emotional responsibility that he needs reminding of.

We're all behind you gruffalos straining at the leash

Have made a chocolate fudge cake to try & soften him up before I smack him round the face with this gently remind him of what I want!

Good tactic on the cake baking!!!
Thinking of you

GO BEBE! GO BEBE!

Good luck with the talk bebe. I agree with the others, this is such an important thing to you that you really need your DH to understand how you are feeling.

And thanks for the grobag advice! I've now moved them onto the list of things that I can think about in a few months time :)

Gudluck bebe i hope u manage to speak to him and that he is understanding of how this is making u feel. U r always so understanding of his work and how he feels so i hope he does the same for u and that ut doesnt end up in an arguement hugs

nanyl. Hav a lovely wkend :) let us know how it goes

swi. I also looked at your kenya photos im very jelous it looks amazing definately on my list of places to c

quod. Glad u managed to finish your projects and i hope the nxt month doesnt end up.as stressful as u suspect it will b

waves to everyone else

well i am a very tired mummy today had a rather sleepless nite last nite :( fx its better tonite
my friend told me she was 12 weeks pg today made up for her she has a lil boy around the same age as my dd and has bin trying for another one since b4 i got pg so made up for her :)other than that nothin to report my life is filled with bottles and nappies at the mo lol

Here goes...see you all on the other side!!

Sending positive vibes to you.

Hi all :)

LO has been very good and kicked my Mum and OH today, to the point where OH got freaked out by it and removed his hand from my belly!!! :) Whoop.

nannyl I'll have a look at the real nappies thing too if I may. We would really like to go real, we are very much for not putting loads of disposables into the system, very much think it's the environmentally friendly way to go, and cheaper too :) Have a lovely weekend.

Sorry I've not name checked everyone, I have read back, but I'm a little tired and just thought I would check in.

Have my GTT in the morning, so I'm now on no food and only sips of water! The fun hey!!!

bebe, not got a date for physio yet, will ring midwife tomorrow to see what the normal wait is. Managed a good walk today, so will see how I fair tomorrow when I get up!

I hope your chat went well bebe, I think there are times when just venting and getting it all out instead of trying to ignore the fact is the right approach. It was very much wrong that he either didn't realise that telling you would upset you, or if he did that he told you anyway. Mind you I did have a few times when OH's friends got preg and he told me, but I did cry in front of him.

Done it! Ripped the plaster off! Still hurt!

DH is still saying no. But there is some light at the end of the tunnel. He doesn't feel like he can commit to having another baby right now given his work situation (& our financial situation as a result of that). He has said he does want more children and when things are more stable we shall re address the issue. So not all doom and gloom, even though I don't have a difinitive date at least I feel like it's not completeley beyond the realms of possibility that I might have another baby at some point. So back to waiting I guess, but with renewed hope.

In other news, my friend who had a MC a few months back is 6 weeks PG. Pleased for her...if a tiny bit

So where does that leave you with regards to the MS and MS meds? Will he be supportive enough if you stay off the meds and have a relapse, or is it start the meds again, and re-evaluate coming off them again in x months time? Glad you did it, and that you managed to talk through it with him.

Oh and we will need a new thread in the not too distant future, are we going to keep the same name and just make it thread number III? Or shall we change the name slightly? I like what we have, but I'm one person out of a group of lovely people. x

And also OH took a pic of my bump, but I look awful in it, so I'm going to try and get him to do another better one.

Well done Bebe. Frustrating that you don't have a date but on the other hand at least it's still an option. Hope that you feel a but better having got it all off your chest.

I am quite excited today. First month of FF and my cross hairs just appeared what's even more exciting is that they confirm ov as the day of my BDD (BD dash!!!) :) another week until AF expected, FX everybody!!!!!

It's absolutely pi$$ing it down this morning. So not looking forward to
Walking to the station!

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