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when did you lose your virginity?

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juice · 25/09/2005 19:20

hi, i seen this topic on another forum and what an array of answers, so was wondering what it would be like on this forum.

i was 14 and he was 35 years older

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Skribble · 25/09/2005 23:54

15.5 he was 17, I was very lucky I think reading these other threads. We were going out for ages and decided together to go for it, a mutual friend provided a room so were warm safe and secure. Its a shame that others first experiences weren't as nice.

QueenOfQuotes · 26/09/2005 00:05

I have to admit I really regret the first time. Got talked into going to a party with some friends of a friend. Got very drunk (have a suspicion my drinks were spiked as I didn't drink that much compared to amounts I usually drank back then). Told one of friends, friends that I wanted to sleep with him. Went and bought condoms (couldn't believe that Zim has 24hr chemists!)

Got back to my place, and changed my mind. But guess i was too drunk to articulate it properly and he talked me into it anyhow

Didn't regret the other 4 though

QueenOfQuotes · 26/09/2005 00:15

"I am really shocked and saddened by those thirty/forty yo perverts who thinks it's ok to have sex with teenager."

Thing is not all are perverts, the head girl at school (I know shocking isn't it ) dated a man who was in his mid 30's from the age of 15. At 18 she was pg with his child......and she's now (7yrs after falling pg) very happily married to him and mother of 4 !

Tortington · 26/09/2005 02:01

i havent

likklemum · 26/09/2005 02:27

I was 16 (although my friends thought I'd lost it ages ago) and lost it in a car park to a Gypsy. I was in love with him and he didn't give a S*it about me. Grimace at the location ...Yeuch!blush]
Agree with the self-esteem thing.
As a teenager, I used to go out with men who were in their late 20's. At the time i thought they liked me because I was mature and grown - up!! I looked REALLY young too.

likklemum · 26/09/2005 02:28

Sorry - Location

Janbo25 · 26/09/2005 08:25

where did everyone lose there viriginity this is usually a very interesting question

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juice · 26/09/2005 08:36

in my friends bed

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Janbo25 · 26/09/2005 08:46

mine was on a friends floor!

treacletart · 26/09/2005 09:14

18 nearly 19 with a boy my own age who I'd been seeing for about 4 months. In love and in a double bed his parents had put in his room for us. We were together for about 4 years I think. I was very lucky. My parents still went crazy when they found out I was having sex - my dad disowned me for years. Insane eh?

sansouci · 26/09/2005 09:16

when i was 16. i was head over heels in love.

geekgrrl · 26/09/2005 09:57

17, stoned and drunk at a party, in the host's summerhouse, with a 17 year old boy I barely knew. I just wanted to do it, really. Not something I'm terribly proud of!

MrsSpoon · 26/09/2005 10:00

19, almost 20, on my wedding night.

to see so many who were forced and/or very young.

Nemo1977 · 26/09/2005 10:04

I was 'forced 'from 9-11, other things from age 7.
First one by choice was at age of 13. Bloke was 16 and quite nice but wish i hadnt done anything by that point.

LilacLotus · 26/09/2005 10:06

did stuff but not the proper thing until i met DP at 22

spidermama · 26/09/2005 10:09

On your wedding night mrs.spoon? That's lovely.

I gave mine away when I was 15 to my then boyfriend (17). I was in complete control, it was my decision as to when and where. But it was still too early. I didn't enjoy it and was only doing it to keep up with my friends.

So sorry to hear about all you young ones coerced. It makes me worry for my daughter.

Carla · 26/09/2005 10:14

That's far too nosey! I'll reveal some things on MN, but that's not one of them!! 17

spidermama · 26/09/2005 10:14

I went to the doctor when I was 15 (nearly 16) and asked him for the contraceptive pill. Then I had sex (not with the doctor).

I even told my mum I was now on the pill and having sex. I remember thinking she'd praise me for taking precautions and feeling disappointed by her look of alarm.

OMG what was I like?

sweetmonkey · 26/09/2005 10:23

I lost mine the week before my 16th birthday. it was over in 30 seconds and left me quite saddened. I then started having sex with a guy when i was 17 who was 42.

We got it together properly last year (i'm now 23 and he is 49) and its been great but in no way was he or is he a pervert. I couldnt go with a younger guy again if i tried. Just not my cup of tea

Janbo25 · 26/09/2005 10:27

more experience sweetmonkey lol

sweetmonkey · 26/09/2005 10:35

DEFINATELY!!!!!! ha ha . It's great. Young people just don't do anything for me

RosiePosie · 26/09/2005 11:05

aged 20 in a hotel room in Brighton. He was my first and only, now my dh.

Janbo25 · 26/09/2005 11:13

i'm surprised that a lot of people on here were quite old to lose there virginity

kama · 26/09/2005 11:13

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QueenOfQuotes · 26/09/2005 11:50

DH was 24 (exactly - the day after his birthday lol) - to me !