when did you lose your virginity?

[juice]

hi, i seen this topic on another forum and what an array of answers, so was wondering what it would be like on this forum.

i was 14 and he was 35 years older

OMG Juice

I was 16

This does sound like an abusive relationship. It was statutory rape for one thing.

how do you feel about it now juice , looking back on it from an adult point of view?

and what would your feelings be, if you were the mother of a 14 year old in the same situation?

yeah i was a few years younger than his daughter.
i got a boyfriend and it just sort of finished then. i still see him now and then, but just as friends.

i do agree, if it was my dd. i would cut their danglers off

OMG juice

Sorry but think that's dreadful - would hate it if my DD was taken advantage of like that!!

14 is way too young IMO.

whays the name of the other forum juice?

Did your parents ever find out, juice?

"whats"

Are you OK about it now....not messed up by it, I mean

i honestly dont think about it much now. but it doesnt bother me. which may be hard to believe, but he was nice to me.

I was 14/15 when this guy I was seeing literally dragged me upstairs I've tried to erase it from my memory now, but it pops up now and again to haunt me. Otherwise I class my first consenting time to just before my 16th birthday.

Of couse he was nice to you, he would'nt have wanted you telling anyone would he.

i was 17 just a month before i was 18

I was 14 too, and he was 13 years older and I now consider that to be vile and disgusting, and yes, if it happened to my dd...

burstingbug

So sorry

no my parents never found out. we nearly got caught a few times. there was only one person that i know for certain that knew.

oh and i still feel it was too soon

Sheesh....

I was 17. The guy was 20

juice - do you have children? If so, how would you ever be able to trust their friends fathers knowing how easy it was for you and him to start a sexual affair

I was 18 nearly 19 and in my first year at Uni.

i have one dd. i hopefully know what to look out for as being in that situation.

Thats ok Waterfalls, as I said, I try to forget about it, although I can rememberevery detail

i was 14, the guy was 21

yeah bursting i know what you mean sometimes just lie awake at night thinking about it and wondering if there was anythin you could have done to stop it

Not much I could have done, it was at a friends house too, and she kept walking in and out of the bedroom without a care in the world that I was unhappy about the situation.