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Anyone else fed up with some of the blatant anti-muslim hatred on mumsnet?

343 replies

Parkingt111 · 08/08/2024 13:52

I don't know if i should even bother trying to address it anymore.
Anyone else fed up?

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headstone · 09/09/2024 21:18

Awful new thread in the feminist board, and they wonder why their kind feminism is only for white women (and non Muslim).

Scirocco · 10/09/2024 09:09

@headstone it's so depressing. I don't have the strength to argue with them today. They're just so wrong.

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 09:43

@headstone thanks for letting us know. I just commented on there about a poster suggesting that all religious books were written by men and that's where the problem lies.

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 10:14

That thread is vile but it comes from a place of complete ignorance and misunderstandings/misinterpreting Islam altogether.

I wonder if it's worth opening up an AMA on Islam so if people have any questions they can ask and any Muslim posters can help answering them?

Aswad · 10/09/2024 10:18

I do think about challenging some of these people and wonder if it’ll just make the thread more popular? Like the more traction and activity going on the more others will see it?
Also cannot STAND when it’s disguised as concern for all the poor Muslim women suffering when it’s their own prejudice and hatred speaking! For that reason, I try not to engage.

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 10:20

I've posted on there mainly to try educate them on Islam but I doubt it will make a fat load of difference tbh.

Aswad · 10/09/2024 10:22

This did come to mind and you’re right re educating others (it’s crazy the amount of pure lies being spread):

According to a saheeh hadeeth, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever among you sees an evil action, let him change it with his hand [by taking action]; if he cannot, then with his tongue [by speaking out]; and if he cannot, then with his heart [by at least hating it and believing that it is wrong], and that is the weakest of faith.” Narrated by Muslim in his Saheeh.

SallyWD · 10/09/2024 10:22

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 10:14

That thread is vile but it comes from a place of complete ignorance and misunderstandings/misinterpreting Islam altogether.

I wonder if it's worth opening up an AMA on Islam so if people have any questions they can ask and any Muslim posters can help answering them?

I've seen at least three AMAs on Islam and sadly they always go the same way. I wouldn't do it unless you have a very thick skin.

Aswad · 10/09/2024 10:24

If only they tasted the sweetness of Iman!
How heaven is beneath the mother’s feet, how women do no have to contribute to household finances, how the mother comes 3 times before the father, how we have to uphold the ties of kinship and I really could go on.

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 10:24

Oh is there @SallyWD I haven't checked tbh. Well may be I won't then.

Aswad · 10/09/2024 10:25

Those AMAs get derailed very quickly! It’s obvious there are those with a very, very clear agenda and you can tell by the sorts of questions they ask. They don’t want to genuinely learn anything.

Scirocco · 10/09/2024 10:37

I've considered doing an AMA but they all go the same way: everything is backward and terrible, hijab = oppression, etc. I once tried to answer some questions from an academic perspective but was told that wasn't what people were interested in and that I was derailing (I'd intervened because people were ganging up on that thread's OP).

The irony as well of Tawhidi being hailed as a fine example of a knowledgeable person in the CITME board when I think even I have more actual academic qualifications than he does.

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 10:38

It's incredibly sad that they just don't want to learn anything. But as Allah says there are those who are blinded and their hearts will always be sealed.

TooBigForMyBoots · 10/09/2024 10:51

I'm fed up with it and I'm not even Muslim. Strength and peace to you all.BrewThanks

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 12:53

It doesn't help when you have a muslim commenting that Islam is a huge problem 🙄

JamTartLover · 10/09/2024 14:49

Aswad · 10/09/2024 10:18

I do think about challenging some of these people and wonder if it’ll just make the thread more popular? Like the more traction and activity going on the more others will see it?
Also cannot STAND when it’s disguised as concern for all the poor Muslim women suffering when it’s their own prejudice and hatred speaking! For that reason, I try not to engage.

Agreed!

Scirocco · 10/09/2024 14:54

Maybe we should do an AMA here on this board, for anyone who's genuinely interested...? (The cynic in me thinks it would probably be taken over very quickly though)

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 15:01

I've been trying on the other thread but they are not interested in what I'm saying just what they want to believe.

AliasGrace47 · 10/09/2024 17:22

I'm not Muslim, but a few years ago in school I did Islam & became v interested in Muslim feminism. I'm Christian myself but I see truth in all religions & I don't believe any religion is bad. I treat Islam the way I treat Christianity, I assume that God (in your case Allah) sent a good message, & some followers have misused it. It's obvs extreme leaders in the Middle Easr have twisted the Quran etc for their own ends, but MNetters instead see the Quran as the problem. You shouldn't have to defend against ignorance all the time. If you like, I'd be happy to pass on anything there & challenge. I was going to post a feminist Muslim blog that points out that Aisha being 9 at the consummation is probs a wrong later interpolation. I was also going to recommend Fatima Mernissi.
It's like blaming Christians for the actions of the Westboro Baptists. ..

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 20:50

anotherlevel · 10/09/2024 10:24

Oh is there @SallyWD I haven't checked tbh. Well may be I won't then.

Actually sorry I just remembered there was an I am a Muslim convert AMA was there.

anotherlevel · 12/09/2024 21:30

Apparently Islam is a cult and we all need saving! Posters openly saying what's wrong with being islamaphobic? Seriously.

I'm referring to the thread on the feminism chat board. It's vile.

Oh and that was said by an ex muslim btw.

Scirocco · 12/09/2024 21:41

anotherlevel · 12/09/2024 21:30

Apparently Islam is a cult and we all need saving! Posters openly saying what's wrong with being islamaphobic? Seriously.

I'm referring to the thread on the feminism chat board. It's vile.

Oh and that was said by an ex muslim btw.

Edited

How is this still allowed on the site???

anotherlevel · 12/09/2024 21:44

I really don't know @Scirocco. It just makes me so sad and angry that it is. I've obviously reported it but it's still up. If people report it more maybe MN will take it down.

AliasGrace47 · 12/09/2024 21:52

I've reported too.

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