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Anyone else fed up with some of the blatant anti-muslim hatred on mumsnet?

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Parkingt111 · 08/08/2024 13:52

I don't know if i should even bother trying to address it anymore.
Anyone else fed up?

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anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 12:54

I emailed MN and they removed it for personal attacks, deliberately inflammatory behaviour and hate speech. And veering on attacks on people because of their faiths whether it's Islam or Judaism. 👏🏼

MarsBounty · 15/09/2024 13:08

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anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 13:20

@MarsBounty I'm glad I missed that!

anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 16:40

I seem to be getting somewhere in the feminist chat! There's a question that a poster has asked me, actually 2 questions by different posters and I'm not sure how to answer them in a manner that won't be taken in the wrong way. Would anyone here be able to help me with a constructive and informative reply pls?

1 - "it still doesn't explain how gay and bi people are supposed to cope trying to pray surrounded by distractions and everything" - discussions around modesty in mosques and reasons for segregation.

2 - "if women need to cover up so as not to distract with their beauty is the responsibility with the woman? Ie what is the view of a woman who does not"

Thank you

BelleHathor · 15/09/2024 16:41

Just voicing support and solidarity. @anotherlevel your strength in answering those questions in the FWR thread is admirable, especially after the other thread.

anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 16:45

BelleHathor · 15/09/2024 16:41

Just voicing support and solidarity. @anotherlevel your strength in answering those questions in the FWR thread is admirable, especially after the other thread.

Thank you. :)
It's not been easy but I'm just trying to avoid the goady ones.

MarsBounty · 15/09/2024 16:59

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anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 17:05

@MarsBounty thank you. I forgot to mention the part of seen a as a believing woman.

It's on the FWR I can't remember the page number now but that's the exact quote of the question asked

MarsBounty · 15/09/2024 17:16

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Scirocco · 15/09/2024 17:49

For the gay/bi question, a friend of mine who is bisexual describes it as being part of her own test in that situation, but that there's far less 'temptation' in a setting where she and her Muslim sisters have come together for study or celebration than there is when she's walking down a high street or through a park on a sunny day. I don't know if that's helpful at all though as haven't read the thread.

MarsBounty · 15/09/2024 17:56

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rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 15/09/2024 18:02

anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 12:54

I emailed MN and they removed it for personal attacks, deliberately inflammatory behaviour and hate speech. And veering on attacks on people because of their faiths whether it's Islam or Judaism. 👏🏼

That's interesting, that's not the reason which popped up on my feed - I cannot remember the exact wording but there was definitely no mention of anything you have written there. There were quite a few false accusations on that thread and also people refusing to see the difference between islamophobia and simply questioning islam as a faith (or indeed questioning any faith).
Just to clarify, my views are that people are free to practice whatever faith they chose and also to question whatever faith they choose, even if the questions don't have easy answers/make people feel slightly uncomfortable.

MarsBounty · 15/09/2024 18:09

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rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 15/09/2024 18:11

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My intention was to state exactly what I wrote.
Accusations of islamophobia when it isn't there, doesn't help deal with actual islamophobia. It isn't islamophobia to question how a belief system works, in a respectful way. I am not sure how anyone can conclude it is.

anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 18:11

@rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou are you implying that I'm lying about what MN emailed me?
Yes the wording is different in the feed it says it was deleted because guidelines were repeatedly broken despite being asked not to.

rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 15/09/2024 18:13

anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 18:11

@rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou are you implying that I'm lying about what MN emailed me?
Yes the wording is different in the feed it says it was deleted because guidelines were repeatedly broken despite being asked not to.

No, I said it's interesting because that's not what appeared when I clicked on the thread after it was deleted. It was a much shorter explanation and didn't have any of the words you've used. Maybe they give more detail if you push for more detail. Maybe you interpreted it differently. I wish I had a copy of the exact sentence I saw when I clicked but I don't.

rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 15/09/2024 18:17

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I missed that comment - even if the thread had remained then I would hope something of that nature would have been deleted.

MarsBounty · 15/09/2024 18:22

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anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 18:24

@rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou I think you must have misunderstood my previous post. I saw they had deleted it. There exact words were:

Why is this Islamophobic Thread being allowed to standd*

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We've removed this thread as despite posting to ask users not to break our guidelines, these posts continued.

I then emailed them asking why it was deleted seeing as it was a thread I had started and the explanation they gave me was what I posted earlier. HTH.

rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 15/09/2024 18:26

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TBH I think the whole thread was essentially a train-wreck and not a helpful or balanced discussion (from either 'side' of the debate).

anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 18:27

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Your posts have been enlightening and interesting so it's sad that they are trying to shut you down.

rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 15/09/2024 18:28

anotherlevel · 15/09/2024 18:24

@rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou I think you must have misunderstood my previous post. I saw they had deleted it. There exact words were:

Why is this Islamophobic Thread being allowed to standd*

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We've removed this thread as despite posting to ask users not to break our guidelines, these posts continued.

I then emailed them asking why it was deleted seeing as it was a thread I had started and the explanation they gave me was what I posted earlier. HTH.

Yes, I understand.
I just think it's interesting that they don't provide so much info unless you actually e-mail. I am not accusing you of making anything up or lying, just to clarify.

anotherlevel · 16/09/2024 11:19

I wonder who MarsBounty was before?

headstone · 16/09/2024 18:39

I’m not going to post on that feminist thread again. I’m finding it all a bit intimidating to be honest. Some of the opinions seem very English Defence League.

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