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Earthmotherimnot passed away peacefully in her sleep today.

310 replies

DaughterOfEmin · 04/09/2013 05:55

I am not sure if this is the right place for this but my mum (EMIN) had asked us to keep her mumsnet friends updated on her cancer battle.

I have already posted on the 'cancer' thread but wanted to make sure I had done what she wanted.

Mum - wife, mother of three, foster mother to over 80 children and grandmother of one - passed away peacefully in her sleep at 2:50 this morning. We were all with her, holding her hand and telling her we loved her.

Yesterday all of her family came to visit and they spent time with her, each of them getting their private time to talk to her and just be there with her and for her.

All she had ever wanted was to be at home with her family around her and she got exactly what she wanted. She will be missed so very much and we are devastated that she was taken so early.

She loved to read threads on fostering as babies were her life. She lurked a fair bit and would just offer words of guidance, comfort or encouragement where she felt she could help. In later months as she fought cancer she concentrated more on the cancer thread and I know it gave her some comfort.

She would have been 60 in October and we are devastated she never got to have her big family party but we get some comfort from the fact that all of her loved ones were with her yesterday.

I don't know how many people she communicated with outside of the boards or if any crossedover to real life but if anyone is interested in coming to the funeral once it is arranged then by all means drop me a private message and I can pass on the details.

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georgedawes · 06/09/2013 20:48

I've just read your mum's thread about fostering the drug addicted baby and she sounds amazing, and such an inspiration. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope the love she inspired in others gives you some comfort at what must be a terrible time xx

nameequality · 06/09/2013 21:04

Really sorry to read this. I have read the fostering threads in the past. What a generous kind woman EMIN was.

nothruroad · 06/09/2013 22:41

What an amazing woman your mother was. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in Peace EMIN. x

Wuldric · 06/09/2013 22:44

I am very sorry for your loss.

Your Mum was amazing. But you knew that already. I wish you courage for the days ahead and comfort in her love.

Onebuddhaisnotenough · 06/09/2013 22:46

Sincere condolences to you all - her threads are an inspiration.

MadameGazelleIsMyMum · 06/09/2013 22:52

So sorry for your loss. Your mother was an amazing woman. I remember the drug dependant baby thread very well, I couldn't believe how selfless and caring and wonderful your mum was.

BellaVita · 06/09/2013 22:55

I am so sorry Sad

Sending much love xx

SauceForTheGander · 06/09/2013 23:00

She was obviously so kind and generous and a total inspiration. I loved reading her thread on looking after the drug addicted baby.

Sending my condolences to you all.

rockybalboa · 06/09/2013 23:08

So sorry for your loss.

Greydog · 06/09/2013 23:10

I am so sorry to read this - condolences to you

piemashandliquer · 06/09/2013 23:10

I also remember reading your mum's thread about the drug addicted baby, and was so moved by her love and kindness. She was so young, you must be devestated. It seems so unfair. God bless x

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 06/09/2013 23:10

Very, very sorry to hear this. Thinking of you all at this sad time.

Charleymouse · 06/09/2013 23:18

So sorry for your loss.
RIP EMIN
xxx

DaughterOfEmin · 11/09/2013 16:11

At 2:30 tomorrow (Thursday 12th September 2013) we are saying goodbye to our amazing mum. Perhaps you could spare a thought for EMIN.
We will miss her forever. Thank you.

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JustBecauseICan · 11/09/2013 16:12

I'm sure all of MN will be with you all tomorrow. x

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AngelsLieToKeepControl · 11/09/2013 18:22

I'll light a candle for EMIN at 2.30 tomorrow. I hope that the day is as gentle on you as possible, sending much love and strength your way xxx

SPBisResisting · 11/09/2013 18:29

I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember your mother's posts. She was inspirational.

georgedawes · 11/09/2013 18:30

thoughts with you tomorrow x

KurriKurri · 11/09/2013 18:40

Dear DaughterofEmin - and all of EMIN's family - you will be very much in my thoughts tomorrow, I wish you all strength, love and peace.

Sleep tight, lovely EMIN xx

KurriKurri · 11/09/2013 18:40

Dear DaughterofEmin - and all of EMIN's family - you will be very much in my thoughts tomorrow, I wish you all strength, love and peace.

Sleep tight, lovely EMIN xx

5madthings · 11/09/2013 18:46

i will be thinking of you and your family daughterofemin much love to you all and i hope tomorrow goes smoothly xxx

i am out tomorrow evening with some other mnetters, we will raise a toast to emin xxx

TidyDancer · 11/09/2013 18:48

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I remember the drug addicted baby thread. Your mum was a wonderful amazing person. What she did will inspire so many people. I hope that comes to be of some comfort to you.

Will be thinking of you and your family tomorrow. x

PollyLogos · 11/09/2013 19:19

I will be thinking of you all tomorrow. Much love and strength coming to you all from Greece xxxx

BreastmilkDoesAFabLatte · 11/09/2013 20:19

I've only just seen this thread, but wanted to say how very sorry I am and to send my love to you all. A friend of mine was inspired by your mother to apply to foster. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.