oh mama- I know you were in 2 minds before your dh put his foot down, and I understand the timing is bad. You have to tell dh and then the both of you list the pros and cons, including the horrible possibility that blueA may have hidden disabilities and need a lot of input from you both.
Soks- you are in an awful situation, especially as you have been snooping, could you admit that to your dk, so he knows what has lead to that unanswered text? We are here for you too darling. xxx
Trips- glad your dk is all clear. is it this weekend you are down our way?
Chops and Shabbs- is everything ok with you two?
I came home after my 1st day back to work for a week to find the house a war zone due to the boys fighting ( J had a girl tell him she likes him, and M told the girls friends his brother was an idiot and not worth going out with!), and my dh has dropped into the knobbishness zone, I was almost an hour late home due to an emergency, (making it a 14hr shift!) and he was pissed off as my meal had gone cold, thing is, I rang him to say i would be late, and he still put it on to cook! Oh, and when he asked me if I wanted a drink, I answered "Yes, a cup of tea please", and he said he was only offering a cold drink, not making tea! He then pissed off up to bed, leaving me alone.
The one good thing here is that J is really enjoying school again, just moving forms has made a huge difference, he has gained 12 +ve behaviour points and zero negative in the past 3 weeks