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One in six PIP claimants have no extra costs linked to their disability

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Allseeingallknowing · 15/10/2026 14:39

https://www.thesun.co.uk/money/40693771/pip-claimants-disability-benefit/
So, can money be saved here?

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ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 15:55

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2026 15:40

Yep.

I was 25 when I had my son who is my only child. He was born healthy and suddenly became disabled when he was 8 due to complications from an illness.

How could I have predicted that was going to happen?

You don’t need to predict the actual mechanism or specific risk event to be able to make your consideration.

For example bigger picture: it’s known that approximately 12% of children in the uk are disabled (more if you consider those not classified). So you know you’ve a roughly 1 in 8 chance of your child being disabled (without knowing the exact form or cause) as a baseline condition.

You can clearly modify this liklihood up or down due to known risk factors. Eg parents carry genetically inherited conditions, parents are older, so on and so forth.

It’s no different to the sums insurance companies do when deciding if to provide insurance and if so, how much to charge.

they don’t know to be able to predict the specific event, just understand holistic probabilities.

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 15:56

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 15:53

This shows a deep misunderstanding of the issues around poverty and how it impacts on people. You should be ashamed of yourself.

so people don’t need money to live on? What am I missing?

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 15:57

Ted27 · 17/10/2026 15:43

What is the obsession on this thread about taxis and petrol money

Rabbit hole people have latched onto rather than focusing on broader concept. I guess it’s an example of Parkinson’s Law of Triviality in practice.

TigerRag · 17/10/2026 15:58

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 15:11

It is what it is and is part of the considerations people make when having a family.

EG we had to think long and hard about having a second as, as slightly older parents, were aware of the increased likelihood of them being born with additional needs and had to decide if that were to happen, could we make it work financially, logistically etc which is particularly challenging for us as we don’t live near family and recognising we know it wouldn’t just be until they’re 18.

That’s presumably what people do right? Not take gambles they can’t afford to lose or am I missing something?

My parents were in their 20s when my brother and I were born. Both of us have disabilities. I have a rare birth defect which in my case likely caused my childhood epilepsy and my autism. My mum's pregnancy with me was normal. It's likely that I have a random mutation which has caused some serious eye conditions. Again how do you prepare for that?

My rare birth defect is usually picked up scans during pregnancy but no one can tell you the prognosis

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:00

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 15:50

You’ve had enough privilege that you can’t understand why what you are arguing and the choices you made, are not possible for a whole lot of people.

The balance of probability is exactly why we have to make sure for those who the risks were low but the consequences were high, have the support and care they need rather than letting them sink because “well, life sucks sometimes”

I love your arrogance to be able to state what privilege I have or haven’t had given you know nothing of my personal circumstances.

I agree fallback safety net needs to be there, and better than what it is at present.

Issue is many don’t treat it as a fall back safety net and rather a normal go to. See previous examples re cost of living, redundancy, being skint and wondering why (when have 5+ kids…!).

BluebellBeth · 17/10/2026 16:01

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 15:50

Well fundamentally everyone needs money to pay for the things they need. Unless you can let me in on a secret of how to live cost free?!

so how would you get it if forced to give up your job to care? If you had no partner to support you, were caring for your elderly/disabled parent/child and had no family to support you?

LizzieW1969 · 17/10/2026 16:01

XenoBitch · 17/10/2026 11:47

Yep, it just feels like disabled people are considered too stupid to know what their own needs and costs are.
It really does not take a rocket scientist to work out that everyone's needs are different. Cash is given to reflect that.

And yes, if DLA/PIP is to be vouchers then it is only right and fair to make any payments from the DWP (so that would be pensions too) to be vouchers too.

Would the Carer’s Allowance be in vouchers as well?

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:02

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 15:48

I do. Even though it is happening 12 years later than I was promised when I started working.

I started my own personal pension when I was 24. I’ve increased the amount I pay into my pension as my career has grown, to the point where my pension calculations make no allowance for the state pension. There is no guarantee of what it will be or when I will get it so I am not basing my future needs on it. I’m very privileged that I have been able to do that and am aware that for many people that isn’t possible. That’s why if in 15 or so years time, the triple lock has gone, or taxation on higher earning pensions rises, or the state pension is means tested, I’m entirely ok with that if it is done to provide for people who need the money more than me or reduces over half of the benefits bill.

If we remain as we are and disability benefits continue to be cut whilst people like my parents who could comfortably live on their private pensions still get a full state pension (yet complain whenever a change to state pension is suggested) then whatever state pension paid to me will be passed on to my disabled daughter who will definitely need the money to pay the additional costs she faces.

I also have to consider that she will not be able to step in and care for us in our dotage, because of her disability, so we will have to allow for provision of personal care. It’s not always as simple as “it’s what family does”.

So what you’ve articulated is what I’m advocating for. Self responsibility. Well done.

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:03

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2026 15:40

Yep.

I was 25 when I had my son who is my only child. He was born healthy and suddenly became disabled when he was 8 due to complications from an illness.

How could I have predicted that was going to happen?

That must have been so tough. We dealt with disability right from the start, so we don’t know any different. It must be so much harder to be thrown into it and having your entire life turned upside down. 💐

roaringdragon · 17/10/2026 16:04

Ted27 · 17/10/2026 15:43

What is the obsession on this thread about taxis and petrol money

It isn’t an obsession to explain why something won’t work. If you or any other poster take exception to the example of taxis and petrol money, you are free to replace the example with any number of other examples of disability related expenses.

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2026 16:05

LizzieW1969 · 17/10/2026 16:01

Would the Carer’s Allowance be in vouchers as well?

Not if you are on UC because it just gets taken straight back off you.

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:05

BluebellBeth · 17/10/2026 16:01

so how would you get it if forced to give up your job to care? If you had no partner to support you, were caring for your elderly/disabled parent/child and had no family to support you?

Various scenarios including savings (your own inc those of the individual you’re caring for, particularly if they’re older), rest or family chipping in, etc etc. That’s what we did as a family to care for MIL’s DM when they came to needing care towards the end of their days (and moved in with MIL who thus needed support - financial + logistics etc. - from the wider family).

XenoBitch · 17/10/2026 16:07

LizzieW1969 · 17/10/2026 16:01

Would the Carer’s Allowance be in vouchers as well?

Yes, for it to be fair...
BTW I don't agree with vouchers at all. Give people agency over their money, regardless of where it came from.

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:07

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:02

So what you’ve articulated is what I’m advocating for. Self responsibility. Well done.

Nope. What I’m advocating for is, those who are able should do what they can, so that those who are not able (for whatever reason) can be provided for.

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2026 16:10

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:03

That must have been so tough. We dealt with disability right from the start, so we don’t know any different. It must be so much harder to be thrown into it and having your entire life turned upside down. 💐

It's definitely tough. I've had to almost mourn my old life whilst also learning how to live my new life at the same time but my son is also amazing and I feel incredibly fortunate that modern medicine was able to save his life.

LizzieW1969 · 17/10/2026 16:12

XenoBitch · 17/10/2026 16:07

Yes, for it to be fair...
BTW I don't agree with vouchers at all. Give people agency over their money, regardless of where it came from.

Absolutely. Vouchers just add to the impression that society thinks disabled people are by definition stupid as well.

Disturbia81 · 17/10/2026 16:12

I know a lot of adults with pip (as in directly work with them) and most spend it on toys, food, ebay, day trips. I can’t afford this stuff even while working. But I think to myself that I wouldn’t want to be disabled, and they don’t get the pleasures in life that others get.

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:13

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:07

Nope. What I’m advocating for is, those who are able should do what they can, so that those who are not able (for whatever reason) can be provided for.

Nail on head. Me too. Problem is many that are able to don’t. That’s what I’m against.

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:15

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:00

I love your arrogance to be able to state what privilege I have or haven’t had given you know nothing of my personal circumstances.

I agree fallback safety net needs to be there, and better than what it is at present.

Issue is many don’t treat it as a fall back safety net and rather a normal go to. See previous examples re cost of living, redundancy, being skint and wondering why (when have 5+ kids…!).

Arrogance is assuming your life choices have been available to everyone. That’s privilege.

There is absolutely no evidence that anyone chooses to live on benefits as a lifestyle choice, and that is certainly not someone who is a carer or a disabled person has done. Nobody chooses that.

15% of households have 3 or more children. It is estimated the majority of those families have only 3 children. According to data, nearly 80% of families with 5 or more children and in households which do not claim state benefits. These mythical benefits scroungers are not the reason the benefits bill is rising.

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2026 16:15

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:05

Various scenarios including savings (your own inc those of the individual you’re caring for, particularly if they’re older), rest or family chipping in, etc etc. That’s what we did as a family to care for MIL’s DM when they came to needing care towards the end of their days (and moved in with MIL who thus needed support - financial + logistics etc. - from the wider family).

Edited

My savings were wiped out during my son's 10 month hospital stay
My work then sacked me because of all the time off I had to take
I have no family other than a disabled mother who is unable to drive and she simply can't 'chip in'.

The 'various scenarios' aren't always possible.

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:16

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:13

Nail on head. Me too. Problem is many that are able to don’t. That’s what I’m against.

There is absolutely no evidence to support that claim. And according to your previous posts, the people who you feel are able to but won’t are those who haven’t predicted their children will be disabled and made sure they have an abundance of family around them to step in to support them.

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:17

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:15

Arrogance is assuming your life choices have been available to everyone. That’s privilege.

There is absolutely no evidence that anyone chooses to live on benefits as a lifestyle choice, and that is certainly not someone who is a carer or a disabled person has done. Nobody chooses that.

15% of households have 3 or more children. It is estimated the majority of those families have only 3 children. According to data, nearly 80% of families with 5 or more children and in households which do not claim state benefits. These mythical benefits scroungers are not the reason the benefits bill is rising.

i think you need to review the definition of both arrogance and privilege as neither are how you’ve used them.

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:19

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:16

There is absolutely no evidence to support that claim. And according to your previous posts, the people who you feel are able to but won’t are those who haven’t predicted their children will be disabled and made sure they have an abundance of family around them to step in to support them.

Don’t misquote me please. Family not the only option. They can of course choose other means such as ensuring they’ve the financial means and / or insurances (dependent on the risk) in lieu of family.

BoredZelda · 17/10/2026 16:20

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2026 16:10

It's definitely tough. I've had to almost mourn my old life whilst also learning how to live my new life at the same time but my son is also amazing and I feel incredibly fortunate that modern medicine was able to save his life.

There are lots of “silver linings” to both our situations. (We can say that but others can’t. 😉) We see things and learn things we’d otherwise have missed. But it’s a very tough road. Tougher still when it transpires we shouldn’t expect any help or support from the government because we should have planned for all of this.

ExpectMore · 17/10/2026 16:20

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2026 16:15

My savings were wiped out during my son's 10 month hospital stay
My work then sacked me because of all the time off I had to take
I have no family other than a disabled mother who is unable to drive and she simply can't 'chip in'.

The 'various scenarios' aren't always possible.

Understood. Re. Your sacking, I’d follow it up with your prev employer (if still within timeframes) as it could be considered indirect discrimination if your son was considered disabled at the time.

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