Stop letting in people who haven’t paid a penny into the system then.
As God is my witness if it comes to pass what people are advocating for on here -vouchers for taxis, vouchers for tesco , vouchers for Electricity etc then I will take my own life.
Sorry if that offends anyone but it offends me that it would push me into that situation.
The daily pressure of looking after two autistic, ADHD people with multiple anxieties, fibromyalgia (DD) and paraplegic (DH) combined with advocating for both of them as neither will speak on the phone/make appts themselves etc, having to do all the cooking, cleaning , washing, coping with the regular meltdowns and occasional punches, attending every appointment, shopping for the ‘right’ foods, the ‘right’ clothes, listening to them drone on with their latest obsession, -I swear to God if I have to take on more admin to request fucking electric vouchers then that will be the straw that breaks this camels back.
YES ITS DEHUMANISING. Just read this thread to see how people look down on you for claiming PIP.
Ive spent over £3000 changing two toilets so DH can use the loo and retain a shred of dignity. DD costs a fortune at the dentist as she can’t barely brush her teeth and goes through an electric toothbrush about once a month as they get broken when she gets so frustrated with it and herself.
DH hasn’t had a shower in a year though as his OT told him he had to stop using the shower as he was at risk of a fall. We are still waiting for the council - I had a letter in July telling me it would be done after April 2027 . I must have made 50 phone calls since then to the council (“the waiting time today is 45minutes,”), the contractor who does the work, the OT, and my MPs office.
It will be nearly two years by the time it’s done -maybe. Two years. How many of you would go two years without a shower.?? If everyone had to rely on the council the wait time would go up and up. So for all of you on here with your ‘get rid of PIP and get the council to do adaptations- oh please fuck off.
How much is it going to cost hiring more civil servants to sift through everyone’s PIP claim and see how much they think each person should be allocated in these ‘vouchers’?? What happens when one month I need oil that’s £700 but none for the next two months? How much extra stress for ME filling out fucking forms and begging ??
Thanks everyone. You really know how to kick disabled people when they are down.
Oh and I cry every day. Every day something happens to make me cry.
Today - The doctors who will send a nurse round to give DH his flu jab but won’t give me one at the same time. I have to make an appointment,get someone to sit in the house with DH, and go to the surgery for my jab. “Rules innit”.
Why? Why ?
How much more are we expected to cope with?