Aargh - I've received a letter saying 'We have information that there is another person linked to you or your address.'
My husband and I separated in June and he moved out. In August I made a claim as a single person with a baby. We are now in the process of mediation to agree a financial settlement. In the meantime he has still been paying into our joint account to cover the mortgage and bills.
Some of the bills are in my name only but some (inc the mortgage) are still in joint names. With a small baby and returning to work (not to mention the shock of finding out my husband of 8 years had an affair and was leaving me) changing this admin stuff over didn't seem like a priority.
Since receiving the letter I've changed the bills and mortgage to my name, and will be closing the joint account this week. I've asked ex to pay the money into my own account instead and I will pay out everything from there. The plan is that he will keep paying an agreed maintenance amount.
I believe that maintenance is not counted as income for TC purposes. Realistically, in the ongoing negotiations with the mediator, I cannot agree to him stopping/reducing the payments until I know my TC will be OK. It's a catch-22. I see lonewolf is in a similar situation.
How can Concentrix distinguish between a contribution to the household (abeit one he is no longer part of) and child/spousal maintenance? We have nothing drawn up on paper yet, but as I say, I can't agree to anything with ex until TCs are confirmed as safe.
Any advice?