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emmsys angels xxx support for mummies of lost angels xxx

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EisAHandbagaHolic · 15/09/2008 22:26

hi ladies
well i think its about time we had somewhere where we can all come to reflect on our lost angels and help us to move on towards the future and support eachother through the bumps in the road in the meantime
love and hugs to you all
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xx ei xx

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barbie1 · 25/10/2008 22:42

mm1509 night night to you my darling, i have missed you this week too.....

mm1509 · 25/10/2008 22:46

barbie hope you are feeling better than earlier.

barbie1 · 25/10/2008 22:58

yes i am thanks, just over tired and over worked...oh and missing dh too!

mm1509 · 25/10/2008 23:01

Sat night doesn't help any either, if it's any consolation mine is fast asleep on the couch atm. Work will be keeping you busy which may take your mind off things but be careful and don't do too much hun.

mm1509 · 25/10/2008 23:22

Sending you big hugs barbie, they always make things seem better. xxx

barbie1 · 25/10/2008 23:23

thnakyou so much, you are always here just when i need you

mm1509 · 26/10/2008 10:16

Morning everyone, hope you all enjoyed your extra hour in bed!!!!!

barbie1 · 26/10/2008 11:31

i wish my dog knew about the extra hour! he tends to know when its wake up time so lies outside of the bedroom door and sighs loudly! oh and the fact we have got bare floor boards doesnt help, i can hear him moving around [sigh] at least its sunny and we have had a nice long walk down on the coast!

mm1509 · 26/10/2008 11:40

Hope your walk helped to clear your head, dd was also up at her 'normal' time this morning dh had to get up with her as I am at work today, you'd never guess would you. Hope you are feeling better today.

CircularRainbow · 26/10/2008 12:25

'and I'm also going to go swimming again tomorrow surrounded by other middle aged ladies'

That won't be me then!!

Hope you ladies are feeling a little bit better today, although the continual rain doesn't help. Just had my steam and swim fix so it will have to last me until next weekend !!!

VillageMum · 26/10/2008 12:28

Hi mm, barbie, well, I really have the blues today... can't even claim that it's hormonal as AF is long over. Just weepy , pathetic, unable to stop worrying. I guess this shows me why I need to take a month out... Will try to go for a swim later. Hope you are both OK!

VillageMum · 26/10/2008 12:31

CircularRainbow, believe me, it's wall to wall middle aged ladies where I go! None of these young hunks barbie seems to have on tap... Depresses me even more...

barbie1 · 26/10/2008 12:42

vm i think we all take turns to have a 'off' day....i guess its going to be like this for some time however im so glad that i can come here to you and tell you, the brave face i put on at work occasionally has to slip and being in the company of you lets me share my real feelings....

VickyJane77 · 26/10/2008 12:43

Hi I too am weepy today. I'm dreading going back to work tomorrow. My dc who's 6 got up at three am this morning wanting to watch a DVD, so I'm also very tired which doesn't help. I've already had to apologise to my dad for snapping at him on the phone this morning, he asked me why I wasn't sounding ok as I was quite a lot brighter when he phoned the other day???? Not his fault I know, but a little understanding would be good.

barbie1 · 26/10/2008 12:44

by the way, the guys at the gym arent hunks! just a group of lad out to have a laugh, still if im getting free training i dont mind....actually one did have a pretty fit looking torso

barbie1 · 26/10/2008 12:47

vicky join the weepy club! we all seem to be a bit down lately, remember we are here though to help you through such times. I know how you feel about work, its a tough one...my first day week was horrid but i got through it be weeping in the toilets and speaking to one close friend who always appeared at my side to serve the customers of new borns of pregnant ladies as it was just too tough

barbie1 · 26/10/2008 12:49

mm at work again??? gosh lady you seem to be there more than me and believe me i do my fair share what is it you do again, apart from being on mn for your entire shift??

VickyJane77 · 26/10/2008 12:51

Some of my problem is live 400 miles away from all my family and friends, so feel very isolated. It helps in some respects, like keeping this last pg a secret, but when things go wrong there is a lack of support. If it wasn't for my wonderful DH and you guys I'd be a lot worse off. I think for my family out of sight out of mind registers with a lot of them, which is understandable, but not helpful.

Sabs1981 · 26/10/2008 12:53

CircularRainbow, VillageMum, MollieMooma, mm1509
Thanks for your welcome messages aand support

MollieMooma, know how you feel. My SIL went into labour this morning, which got me so upset and thinking about myself, then Ifelt so selfish. Good luck at the doctors on Tues.

MsGhoulofGhostbourne sending you lots of hugs during this difficult time

VickyJane77, good luck going back to work tomorrow. I cried so much and stressed myself out so much the day before going back to work after my MC. The first few days back, I was just in a daze, just going through the motions, but I promise, it does get easier.

VillageMum · 26/10/2008 12:56

VickyJane, I actually had to ask my mum and dad not to phone for a while around the time of my mc because I couldn't deal with their emotional needs (and their need for me to feel whatever they thought I should be feeling) so I totally understand... DS was up at 7am and made me join him in his bed to watch him play on his Nintendo, so feel pretty groggy too.

Am about to start cleaning the house now. Have been taking the odd moment to weep in the loo where DH and DS can't see me.

barbie1 · 26/10/2008 13:09

vickyjane snap, i too live 400 or so miles from family, they are in devon and im in newcastle, only a few friends at work but more work mates then friends if you know what i mean...my dh has gone back to work abroad for 3 months so now im all alone, just me, the dog and my mac which links me to my world, ie all of you here! hence you will always see me on here. Once i get home from work/ gym i really havent got anyone else to speak too until i get back into work the next day. Do you know? i dread the weekends and my days off, too much time on my own to think.......

VickyJane77 · 26/10/2008 13:13

barbie I know exactly what you mean, I have mates at work, but no one to really girly talk with etc... all my family and friends are in Cheshire, and we are up near Inverness. Normally it's ok, but at times like this I need the company. Thank goodness for mumsnet.

barbie1 · 26/10/2008 13:22

here here! so why all the way up there?? thought it was cold in newcastle, its positively summer down south compared to here!

VickyJane77 · 26/10/2008 13:27

I know, we visit family in November for our summer hols lol . DH's job brought us up here. It is nice up here, ds has recently been diagnosed as having mild autism and the help we are getting is very good, whereas back home he was dismissed as a naughty child.

barbie1 · 26/10/2008 13:30

Ahhh men eh? we follow them where ever they go! at least you have a positive from it with the help for your ds. Im waiting to see wether we move again soon, we have fingers crossed for dubai or else we will be going home, both will be such a relief....part of me just wants to get in the car and go home now but i will wait this year out and see what 09 brings....