Hey ladies! How are we getting on? Will reply to everyone in a sec but I just wanted to share some amazing news we got yesterday!! I’m so so so pleased to share that the Dr called me and said my histology results showed there was no evidence of a molar pregnancy. YAY! Honestly I was so happy I burst into tears on the phone and then like 3 times yesterday evening because I just kept remembering and feeling so happy. She called me specially to tell me because she remembered how anxious I was. What a babe. It’s just a huge weight off our shoulders and is the best possible outcome we could have hoped for after such a shitty few weeks. Just feeling really grateful and humbled really as we’d read so much about partial molars and I just feel incredibly lucky that it wasn’t the case for us, and sending love to anyone who may be dealing with this as it’s been an incredibly stressful few weeks. We don't take for granted the fact that it could have been our reality. So this means we just need to wait for my period like the rest of you girls and then we can crack on 😊 yay!
In other news I started back at work yesterday and honestly it’s nice to get back to some normality plus my reception was so lovely. My manager called to check in first thing and then the director of the company called me to see how I was (cute) and THEN I got ANOTHER beautiful bouquet of flowers delivered by my workmates. And throughout the day everyone was checking in on Zoom to see how I was which just made me feel so loved as I’ve worked there a year but obviously mainly WFH, and I don’t know, like they obviously don’t know about the miscarriage so just making sure I’m okay. I just said I went into hospital. Super cute and just wanted to share if anyone is nervous about going back to work as I’ve had a really good experience.
So yeah, I’m feeling a lot better these days. 9 days post-surgery, bleeding has stopped, had the odd vvvvv pale pink wipe last couple of days but hardly anything at all. I’m back on the B6, folic acid and agnus castus cause I figured it couldn’t hurt, and I’m going to order Vitamin D too as I’ve read it’s just generally really good for us. So I think we’re just waiting for my period now. Tempted to get some OPKS to see when I ovulate but I also feel it may tempt me too much and I do feel it would be best to wait for my period before trying, and hope that we still catch this mystical fertileness post MC.
I saw a post on here from an old thread I think where someone said she felt so humbled by her body having a period after everything she’d been through and I screenshotted it as it really resonated with me. Going to try to shift my thinking into that mindset more than the negative one I’ve been in lately. Trust in what’s happened and believe that it wasn’t meant to be, but better days are ahead of us.
So, catching up on the new thread!
@Enola41 oh lovely I’m so sorry that you’re having such a tough time at the moment. As everyone else has said please know that we are all here for you and you will get through this even though things feel almost unbearable at the moment.
@mia2201 thank you for sharing your story I think it will help a lot of ladies joining us xxx
@LauraT94 goodness me what a week you've had, bless you sweetheart. Crazy that the bleeding can vary so wildly between the days. Glad the pain has lessened - are you still getting some though? I was on 30mg of codeine too and it really helped eliminate my pain apart from when they wore off and I was due a new one. I hope they help you too and the pain really starts to be minimal soon xxx
@Summersun001 welcome. So so sorry for your loss xxx
@TheDaydreamBelievers so exciting that you’re in the TWW. Sending you so much love and positive thoughts and I agree you did the right thing, I’m tempted to given my long cycles. Fingers crossed neither of our cycles are as absolutely batshit crazy as they were post-pill, and fingers crossed even more that things go well for you this cycle xxx
@AMS19 just catching up on your shenanigans! So are you thinking BD this cycle, like before your period? I’m so conflicted about what to do but DH thinks wait for a period and I think I probably agree. What if we miss a fertile cycle though urghghhhhhh why is this so annoyingggggggggg
@DMT1982 so exciting that you’re ovulating! I know you’re going to wait a couple of months to TTC but exciting news and sounds like your body is trying to do the right thing xxx
@Slk3558 welcome to our thread lovely. Not sure about which day to count as CD1 to be honest so looking forward to seeing everyone’s thoughts! It’s so hard and I really have no idea. I guess the day I actually had the ERPC should be it…although I started bleeding more heavily the day before…but I actually started properly bleeding on New Years Day. So who bloody knows.
@Mellous hello, are we surgery twins? Did you have an ERPC on the 12th? If so, hi!
Sending everyone love xxx